Okay so basacally how the hecc did i not realize i was enby sooner.. 8yo me: *having a bad day, kinda wanting to cut my hair off, but not because im a 'princess' my mom and her friend coming home with some random person who i never met before and me just being immediatley drawn to them moms friend: this is robyn, ze uses ze/hir pronouns me being confused but fascinated and asking a ton of questions hours later my moms friend and robyn leave and my moms friend comes back without robyn. me: So... how can someone use pronouns outside of she and he? my moms friend: he cant, he's either confused, or fake. he'll come around soon. me feeling dissapointed cus i thought i found something that finally almost explained how i felt then basacally forgetting the whole situation. me a few years later (like 10 or eleven) being ashamed and dissapointed at myself because i thought that the reason i was ibsessed with trans boys and enbies was cus i fetishised them and i knew that was wrong