i think we as a community need to take accountability for ourselves. im so tired of seeing ppl get away with bad behavior and/or not taking accountability when called out. im exhausted, really

look, i dont care what people say or do since its completely out of my control, but theres a time and place. if people are having to ask others to not make fun of their vents or having to make ENTIRE posts about hating others and making fun of others, then we have a serious issue.

we are all people. we are one in 8 billion. we are people. we all deserve basic decency, but i lose respect for people who treat others like shit because 'its funny'

my post isnt about specific people, but its a generalized post. we all make mistakes, yes, but apologizing or feeling guilt and doing it again makes it into a bad habit. we /cant/ go "im sorry" and hurt someone again. i learned that the really hard way with former friends. we can **** up and learn from it, or we can **** up.

i think im going to make this my boundary post as well. -i dont Care what people say or do, like i mentioned earlier, but i will not be comfortable with people i know harassing others for little to no reason ^^^- that being said, i will also not be dragged into yalls bullshit unless i am a direct antagonizer of said bullshit and earned a reason to be held accountable. -i am Very Open about my trauma and my thoughts. if you are uncomfortable with me being open about my past sexual experiences, my openness with my trauma (openly talking about my self harm and suicidal tendencies), etc, then feel free to block and unfollow me. the only place i will not cater to your comforts is on the page i run

-i will call you out if youre doing bullshit on my page. i will block you if you continue doing said behavior otherwise, i Dont Care what yall do

im very frustrated and annoyed. im gonna go GOON goodbye guys

generalized post after certain events past few days