existential crisis
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Mika-101[OP]
16.12.2022 19:47
Linkwho am i if i can even help my friends with their problems
Honestly Mika, I think you just need to take care of yourself first.
Worry about you before you worry about others.
How can you take care of others if you can’t take care of yourself/lh
But how can you make them happy if you aren’t happy yourself.
It just doesn’t work that way, bc in the end that’s just going to make others sad.
Everyone wants the best for you Mika, and if you genuinely aren’t the best at the moment then it doesn’t work like you think
And when I say happy I mean genuinely happy, you can’t just fake it, bc then that’s just deceiving someone, which is wrong.
You need to look after yourself first. Don’t wear yourself out, you can’t assist your friends if you aren’t at your best physically. Go easy on yourself and ask to go home, or if you can’t just try to relax.
Being stressed while in any kind of physical pain will make it hurt more.
if you find your friend venting, just leave and tell them you need time to yourself. or just tell them you understand what they are going through, you just need it to be quiet for a bit
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