Imagine following a homophobe
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Slowpokegurly 
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05.04.2022
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Slowpokegurly[OP]
05.04.2022 02:26
LinkAND A RACIST- I FORGOT BUT YEA UR A HUHE RACIST LOL
Slowpokegurly[OP]
05.04.2022 02:26
LinkH u g e
i would like to know more
in your point of view, explain the conversation with the most details, even the small ones
tell me the order of the saying, the tone of voice used, and especially include the interruptions if they were some
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also you can't just assume things like that you might've interrupted her 😒
I dont understand, wdym by interuptted?
Also I'm not assuming, she said the f slur and she's straight and refuses to accept she did the wrong thing and apologize. She also defended a cousin for calling me the f slur and later saying the n word (not gay or black)
ok i may i have made a bold assumption but did she explain about the "people choose family over friend" thing or smth like that before apologizing?
She didn't apologize, and made the excuse that she is "family oriented." But there was a much better way to help this family member than tell him it was fine and its okay to continue this behavior. He could be hurt in the future for calling someone these slurs, and I've told her this. She refuses everything and strongly believes she did everything right no matter what evidence is used that this was the wrong thing to do. She could have explained that he should not use these slurs, as they are extremely offensive to others. (I've explained this to him multiple times, but to no avail nothing happened)
Do you have a discord or other platform i can share screenshots? (If discord, my user is FancyTheSpider#7744)
so how and when did she stop talking? what was the last sentence she said? what did you say to her after she stopped talking?
see i need these kinds of answers or we're not going anywhere
I know this, which is why im asking for a way to contact you and send images. (Screenshots per say)
She's never gone out of her way to contact me even though i have so many times, her sister had to beg her to respond and when she would finally, (about a week after each of my responses) they were her claiming that what she did was correct. The last thing she said to me before i just decided to say goodbye and block her was her saying the f slur during her explanation of why she was right. I do admit that i did get angry and yelled when she said the slur, but she knew it was a slur and knew she couldn't say it. I was angry, and then i took a step back. After this, i said goodbye and left.
ohh it was ONLINE
here you can put the screenshots in here:
https://imgbb.com/
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Oh yea i shouldve explained that sorry LOL
Some aspects were irl but ill try to make sure i address those if/when they come up
Oh boy this is gonna take a while for all the screenshots LOL i apologize
Bye, i dont know how to make a new flipanim account and littler told on me to her parents- so her sister (who shares the acc with me) is forced to delete it
ok im still in for a bit, let me get as much as i can.
sadly i dont have screenshots of her cousin saying the slurs because the chats were deleted but i do have my dms with him
My dms with littlers cousin that said the slurs
https://paste.pics/0f6273112fc81cfe8a4bcbe9af7bd238
https://paste.pics/1b3d2facb5c4067ffa3ebda9cd2c38ca
https://paste.pics/f07650c6d1cdb722e394101cb580bf13
https://paste.pics/9bf13abece0bcdd13b40af5dea348b52
https://paste.pics/0f6273112fc81cfe8a4bcbe9af7bd238
https://paste.pics/1b3d2facb5c4067ffa3ebda9cd2c38ca
https://paste.pics/f07650c6d1cdb722e394101cb580bf13
https://paste.pics/9bf13abece0bcdd13b40af5dea348b52
These are all the dms with me and littler during the whole situation
https://paste.pics/24544e890b48ad92a679609cc9bf4761
https://paste.pics/e9c93d707af384fe12f8f70761bd9c0d
https://paste.pics/a2e4dccaa705e36340e7b9c7cf2267f3
https://paste.pics/33c8efae2414370cdd54e1775386043e
https://paste.pics/867d58f2948416ac16333d0382c2eccf
https://paste.pics/b5e28122e494dd65673defc24deca64e
https://paste.pics/bdf1b3438d8748085b75cfb6b78c6ed6
https://paste.pics/10ac919dc4c56418d13928d6a0c0c5c8
https://paste.pics/fa5f96a244bc68a9f2ef8b2aaf1dd4a4
https://paste.pics/7cc5e90906a8e3fcc0e5d3e18a021e23
https://paste.pics/aad1d20db7feaa651952e47e2e020b93
https://paste.pics/b1651c53720cb5ee9fc82320f4eb7d3b
https://paste.pics/f3c5359a9564525f8fe6ac413813b68c (edited)
lastly, here is a convo between me and littler on flipanim
https://paste.pics/bf72d123dfc0b217843041ded35f7db0
https://paste.pics/fb66c39c3befb302c9006c74d55cf563
https://paste.pics/ee17ce7dfe8e92751daf5393099c5bc3
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https://paste.pics/ce115650134f89aa62c6b8d90b9c64ad
https://paste.pics/449902bae8cdf6736d33f281a5559f0a
https://paste.pics/8e0b8167ef8caadb49a8bf783d9962bb
https://paste.pics/ffb40768fe96c19415bfcdd951a502bc (edited)
I closes out the discord design so I didn't see the last discord one
And I like how she says goodbye and then continues to come here because she can as has nothing better to do and tries to ruin stuff for me
I was talking about on discord I closed out the dms so I didn't see alot of what you put
Also why do you care more about the flipanim ppl than ariana its really confusing me and its hurting ariana
I've been a lot more open on here I don't like speaking out to people I personally know this site was where I poured my heart out on the occasional so when you came here and starting trying to tear things down it rightfully made me more upset cause this is my diary basically tho I do normally delete things after a bit this situation and you being on the site made me feel like I couldn't talk about anything and when you came and went "littlerbunni terrible person" it hurt me a lot more because ei wasn't prepared for it but I was prepared for the fools loss
You talked to her every day, why were u just expecting to lose her and not your followers? No matter what, you can use this website. Thats not going to be taken from u unless you are banned.
But I felt uncomfortable as I said I don't like to do something if it makes me uncomfortable because I felt if I said anything you would go and make fun of it like whenever I posted something but my friend making me feel better and you went "Look she feels so sorry for herself she's so selfish"
How is losing maybe 1 follower you dont know more hurtful over your best friend?
I said that cuz i was pissed cuz i was asking for an apology and as soon as i did you posted about how u missed your better older friends because they treated you so much better
Nah bro that was about how someone who I didn't really talk to that much at school who I found back thru I birthday bud on discord made me feel better after he saw your little post in your discord server :^
My announcement? That wasnt biased at all, it was just telling the events so i could inform people why you were gone. I said NOTHING biased.
And it was still about the situation and how he was so much better
Idk what you said but according to him you made it sound rude and as if I had called you the f-slur
But he didn't know the situation so it's seeming like h framed me out to call u the f-slur
Either discord or message, but you have me blocked on both so pick which
https://paste.pics/8d94f1492328a00d320425c4a24f473b
https://paste.pics/94315d28b60535da4d03c04c1d33ffa3
Do you feel its biased? I only wrote what you showed through your messages and actions
Why the heck do you have so many messages also I feel like accusing someone of being a cis straight when ther enough is kinda biased is it not
Are you trans? If so you've never told anyone. Cis means you are the gender you are assigned at birth. And you are straight, youve told me. Im confused?
Also its not biased, if i were wrong it would be me assuming. The only pronouns used for you and heard people used for you are she her
Oh shoot I thought it meant something else my bad LOL omg I need more God damn education on this I only have my stuff from 2019-2018
Funny thing is that your whole thing against me is
"She's straight cis and said the f-slur" and that was legit one thing out of what I thought was the main thing my cousin which you turned it around into SHE SAID THE F-SLUR and that's what it seems like is the entirety of it but it's not :|
Its important to state why what you did was bad, if i didnt specify you were straight then people might assume you were gay, and had the right to say the slur but you didnt. And it was a big deal, since you did not apologize or acknowledge it was wrong at the time.
And i did address the part about your cousin, it took up at least the whole second half
i do have another question tho, why do you value your followers more than ariana?
Adding on to this, you KNOW how fragile arianas mental health is. Shes come so close to taking her own life. Her mental and physical state are so low, shes told me herself this situation might be the last straw. And im scared of losing her.
She said bye to me not the other way around she said she couldn't be friends with me anymore and I find that aye ok at first I cried of course but a day after I was over it idk why it didn't hurt as much as I expected I can only guess I think yall just leaving to me felt better than how you actually screamed at me I don't like feeling yelled at that stuff makes me sensitive and since you and Arian didn't scream at me when you said goodbye I'm guessing I wasn't as upset mixed with a possible point of I did kinda expect that outcome and saw it coming cause not all online friends last especially if you wanna keep up irl social skills which I am trying to work on and I am making some good progress on that. So my apologies if me not being upset about loosing yalls friendship isn't hurting as much as yoh want to see me hurt, but it's not a matter of who I value more it's a matter of how the cards were layer out.
"Not all online friends last." This is YOUR fault because of how you acted. Ariana left you because you continued to act out in a wrong way. And she is hurting WAY WAY more than you are, its not fair. If she kills herself, its because of YOU and this whole situation. You couldve talked with her but you refused and hung up on her. Me going and trying to draw as much attention to myself here on flipanim is the ONLY way ive gotten to talk to you.
And the way you were just like "oh well" is so shitty. She was hoping you would at least try to redeem yourself. Just because your friendship was forced to be long distance doesn't mean it cant thrive. You couldve met up in the future. Me and slow are going to meet in the future, its so wrong for you to assume that online friends don't mean anything. You can drift away just as easily from irl friends.
Anyways, im saying that you have/had a chance to mend your friendship with her. And fix her mental state. Why not take it?
You and her spent hours looking for good places to live together in, its just weird how you dont care
While ariana is having really huge mental and physical problems due to our situation
Just looking for the part where I said online friends don't matter
Just wondering how you expect me to control my own emotions when I legit can't make myself be upset 🤔
basically what you showed when you didn't give a shit when she said bye. i know you cant control your emotions, so the emotion you responded with shows you dont care. Anyways, would you want to be friends with her again if you had the chance
because if you say no and she dies its probably mostly gonna be on you, just letting you know so it won't be a surprise.
This is an opportunity, you were in the wrong and now shes giving you another chance. Granted, she might not even want to be friends again. I dont really know how this can be fixed for her at this point. I just want her to be happy and stay alive.
Idk what’s going on but uhm-
I agree with inko(LunaciAnimatez05)
I kind of want to know what it’s like from your pov Ig?
Theres this anim for the basic info, but for greater details + screenshots i mostly use discord, but i have most other medias if you want to use that. (Discord is FancyTheSpider#7744)
Oh sorry i didnt even see your response until now, but this anim i attached has pretty much all the info, lmk if u have anymore questions!
If you have discord or any other form of dms, i have screenshots to give! Imveru glad I'm finally being heard, you can form your own opinions from here once these sides are heard
Ive known littler for 6 years of my life and her sister is my best friend, and this was a huge event for us. I do admit that at times i did get a little too upset and angry, but i did apologize for it. Littler did not apologize for anything and told people multiple times that she was right. For this, i can't see her as an ally to the gay and black communities.
I do have screenshots of littler telling me her perspective as well