I was in tiktok when this one video came up. It was a women THREATENING to look through her kids phone while she's having a mental breakdown and locked outside. She said "it's not abuse, it's parenting" but that IS ABUSE. Instead have her sit and talk to you. She would be way happier if you do that. And if you continue to do this, your just a downright disgusting person that deserves what's coming to her.