What is making you feel bad?
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Cherrygirl855 
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28.02.2021
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Cherrygirl855[OP]
28.02.2021 01:25
Linkbad can mean many things: Upset, angry, stressed, anxious, etc.
drawing-mage
28.02.2021 02:04
LinkTWT IM SOOOOOO PROUD OF YOU!!!!!
Hmm...people can have their own opinions, don't let it get to you. I understand it is wrong, but sometimes people make decisions they will regret and that is the truth. You can't do anything about it and you can't change someone's opinion.
This is true.
Still, he should have NOT compared trans ppl to onions.
Ppl need to think before they say/type/post.
That is true, but he has said many times that he understands what he said was wrong, but he won't change his opinion. He doesn't hate trans people, but rather the idea of being trans
stuff like this bottling everyones emotions for them it gets stressful make you feel like its your job after awhile and makes you feel like you have to care about it im a bit worried about you now tho
I like doing this honestly. Helping other people helps me feel like I have a purpose. I don't expect people to care about me, but I want people to know that I care about them
I want to make people feel better than I feel now, because this make me feel better and them. It's a win win, but I understand your concern. I'll be okay ^^
Well, you most likely feel like people won't understand you and what you say to them so it makes you feel horrible when you say stuff. I'm guessing you have a history of being around people who didn't seem to care about what you are going through?
Yeah people told me to die, and stuff I made a vent but I never felt better :(
I’ll show u it if you want, I also just can’t stand people sometimes and I don’t understand them a lot and how there hyper about stuff and then every now and again I’m just in pain but not like right now talking about it I feel like I’m being choked and can breath and somethings tryna escape my be;oh and I just can’t stand it
Some people use anger as there way to cope, I like the phrase "It takes a bully to make a bully". Honestly if someone tells you to die, just remember if you do then they will feel like it was their fault. Which would lead them to the place you are now. We are all ****ed up, and you can't blame someone without walking in their shoes first. You aren't a bad person, and people do care about you. I'm always here if you want to talk about it okay?
Okay but I am bad I’m a cyber bully and I just can’t stand myself or anything really if I hear sum nice I just feel like I’m going insane and if I hear mean things I think there true with everyone like if someone said they hate me then my mind will be like your g]friends agree with them they hate you to, and I just want it to be over but I don’t wanna die bc then I’ll break so many peoples hearts that I know care and I just can’t stand a thing I hate talking about it but at the same time someone gots to know and I just feel like I don’t know but I just am suffering like I’ll try to hide it I feel bad I’ll tell someone I feel bad
Well, we can start by working on what is causing this. Maybe apologize to the people you have bullied?
I can’t I’ve forgotten who they are and online on the site I did bully I’m banned from and if I did say sorry they prob won’t remember bc sometimes I just wonder why are we even here? Why do we suffer? Are we making ourselves suffer? And I just don’t remember them bc I know they won’t remember me and I have so many fake friends but I can’t end it
Well, you can still change, maybe take a good look at yourself and what you have done, and use that to change.
I have been mean to my bro’s I’ve helped but it seems no one cares I torture my mind and I have like another mind that’s rude and I just am like stop! Please! And I can’t think of good things I’ve done that ether a matter or b cared for like if I did sum that someone was ok and cared and that it mattered
Well, I used to bully people if you look at my old account on here, but I have changed. Maybe help someone here and there, but take a deep breath and think before you act or speak, that should help you stay away from being mean.
I do think but when I’m mad or stuff I just am like they deserve this they should die no one should like them or I’d just hit them and idk ur old acc but like I’m a tomboy and I’m bi and people hate me for that (I know allot of people hate that stuff but I’m BOTH) and so every friend I make that’s a girl is like “oh we don’t like u u don’t play with dolls or anything” and the boys are like “your a girl, your not good enough, and one time I was telling a story to my old friends and it was about me dating my same gender and they were all like ew that’s gross we don’t like you no more and
YOU ARE VALID!!!! don't let people get you down. And try to remember, violence is never the answer. If you can't think of something that isn't rude or mean to say, then try to keep quiet. It is okay to think these things though.
You see that’s one of things that makes me mad bc people say that all the time but I can clearly see they don’t care bc I still understand but I can’t do it and so I hit em, and I’m going to middle school and I know there’s gonna bc someone who’s mean and I am tierd all the time and so I don’t wanna deal with people I have mood swings so people think I’m lying and I use to be a lier and so I don’t know how to be nice but make em go w]away
get a teacher or an adult you trust if they are rude to you. It is the best thing you can do.
That’s the thing I trust no one and if I tell my mom she’ll take this away so I won’t be able to go on this and I know why I’m a lil more trustworthy to online and not rl bc online when I played roblox ppl where nice I was in my own world but then I started staying in the roblox world and stuff then I left and now I’m here and I feel like I’m bad to my brother
well, you can't just stay quiet. Maybe apologize to your brother and talk with him. I can see that you two are cose.
He knows I’m sorry and all he’s the person I love the most BUT I tried telling him before and I Brooke into tears and he was like you girls always say boys don’t know depression and all that then he said to die so I’ll never tell him again or anyone bc he scared me to tell ppl irl
I honestly don't know what to do about this, but I'm always here for you. I do care, so... I guess if you need to talk im here...im sorry I couldn't do more
I don't really know. He honestly is a great person, plus he is a minor so he can't really be classified as a minor. He just has his own opinion on the idea of being trans, that is all
eh, they take things out of context, just don't worry about them.
my great grandmother is staying with us, for a little bit bc,
she's fallen a few times, and she's 'kinda kinda ko ko' so she cant stay home alone. but my dad has to get all this paperwork done, and has so much to do.
and i mean it wouldent be a bad thing, but my grandmother is so mean.
i mean, she was asking me something, and i replyied, but she didnt hear me, so she asked agin, so i didnt say it in the nicest of tones, and she rolled her eyes at me, and was liek 'oh you dont have to talk to so nice, your get old one day' and she says so much more stuff! i mean that was the tip of the iceberg!
she's called me fat, when she is waaaayyyyy over waight, and shes gross.
she'll come out of my brothers room (she has to stay in there and my brother has had to sleep on the couch for weeks now)
in just a rob and underwhear!
and she tell's me and my brother to turn of lights and save money when she sleeps with the light on, and has it on all day long!
It sounds like she isn't in the right state of mind and doesn't seem to realize it and rather than understanding what's happening, she is trying to distract people from the truth. Sometimes you can't control what other people do. Try to help her to the best of your ability and remember that you are beautiful just the way you are.
and, she just says mean stuff all the time!
i mean she'll eat cake with her hands, and one time we had this thing for breakfest and she used her spoon, and scrapped the boul, with it, and aet out of it, when other pwople where still gonna get stuff!
and she will just stear at me and my brother when where doing school.
and she listens to all of your convos, and she'll answer quishtens you asked some one when your not talking to her.
and she won't wash her hands when she uses the bathroom,
and sometimes she dosent even cloes the door when she does, and when i walk out of my room the batheroom dorr is right there!
aww yeah
i mean iv'e really started trying to be nicer, i mean i have but its so hard!
but thank you for saying that!
and yeah isn't she started talking crazy one time, bc she was saying how ever one hates her, and stuff and i said no one does, she started smilling and laugh, and poniting me saying i didnt know that. so i left.
Yeah, some people have a set thing in their mind and it's hard for them to change it, sometimes it sticks with them for their entire life and you can't blame them for it, just keep being nice and help her out as best as you can.
yeah,
i really aprrecheat it.
thanks for hearing me rant, iv'e started being kinda mean with my friends since i just havent been in a good overall moed, so, i'm sorry if iv'e said anything.
No, it's understandable. Things like this are hard to handle, and you can't be nice to everyone, it gets overwhelming. But think before you say something, maybe take a deep breath and think about something happy before talking/texting.
yeah, i will :)
thank you for your help, you dont know how much it means to me for someone to listen and not laugh, and just say sorry.
Yeah, sometimes people say that they will help, but they won't. If you ever need me, just comment on my newest anim and I'll talk to you when I can.
sorry i dont wanna sound random:
but i'll probably come to you agin soon.
Some people don't realize that pollution is bad and others are too lazy, you can't expect everyone to be perfect. This may be frustrating, but what you can do is set an example.
Oh, it looks amazing so far, but don't stress about it. Take your time and look over it before posting the series. You shouldn't rush on it, think about it this way. If you don't like it, retry. If you do, post it. Nobody can do things right the first time so make sure that your happy. Because if you are happy with it, who cares what other people think.
I do too, tbh. Sometimes it is hard to show your feelings when you know that people will just abandon you eventually, but you can't bottle them up. That is a form of self-harm and it isn't healthy.
I can understand this one, but there are people who care about you, sometimes they don't have time for you tho