hey.
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Ice-Wolf[OP]
01.01.2022 16:22
Linki think it's funny how the people i despise the most are the reason im making this post. partially out of spite, partially because it's true.
five months ago is when i should've been speaking out about this, huh.
better late than never, tim and salad [neg].
Ice-Wolf[OP]
01.01.2022 16:22
Linkbisexuality is the attraction to two [or just, more than one] or more genders, that is how i understand it. it has ALWAYS included trans and nonbinary folks.
pansexuality is the attraction to all genders aka no preference.
now that we've gotten the definitions out of the way, here goes nothing.
Ice-Wolf[OP]
01.01.2022 16:22
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two labels, bi and pan. there are subtle differences between the two but in the end? **** that, i think they do the same thing. id yourself how /you/ want to id.
battleaxe bis really love to say that pansexuality is inherently transphobic because some pan people like to say, 'pansexuality is attraction to men, women, and trans people.' by separating "trans people" into their 'own group', it implies that binary trans women and trans men arent '''''real'''' men or women. which is transphobic. however? only a few people use this term and it's the pan people who are misguided and are just. Wrong. as wrong as battleaxe bisexuals, who believe that bi = pan and think everyone attracted to multiple sexes is bi. absolutely not.
Ice-Wolf[OP]
01.01.2022 16:22
Linki hate to water it down to something like this but the following is the only example i could think of. synonyms. it's a bit like synonyms.
let's say you have the word scared.
from scared you have frightened, afraid, fearful, nervous, and panicky. from frightened you have
startled, alarmed, terrified, shocked, and appalled.
if bisexuality is like the word scared, and is treated like, yk, an umbrella term, what do we have?
a load of sexualities that make the people who use them comfortable.
that arent biphobic or transphobic.
Ice-Wolf[OP]
01.01.2022 16:23
Linkppl really dont like to look past archaic and old terms used by a sexuality, huh? things that the majority doesnt even use anymore. educate the misguided and wrong, but dont trash the entire f.cking sexuality. That is uncalled for.
Ice-Wolf[OP]
01.01.2022 16:23
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also, speaking of sexuality umbrellas and whatnot,
im going to mention that some microlabels are actually transphobic / [x,y,z]-phobic. do your research on them before using them, thanks. that would be all.
Ice-Wolf[OP]
01.01.2022 16:23
LinkIce out.
I am honestly also bisexual and I support all flags other than those created by homophobic. I also support the pans and I believe that there is nothing wrong with them and their opinions.
Haha its almost like you're talking about a certain special someone we both knew!! Haha!!
(this user is a cassexual pan !!!)
BASED !!!!!!
I hate it when people say pans and bis and polys and omnis r all th same ??? sure they’re under the m spec but. they all have diff meanings !!!! also. homo/hetero flexibles !!!! not th same.
As somebody who is Pan, I appreciate this post a lot!
I do wanna she’d some light on the “men women and trans people” part though as I do often include that when explaining.
There are alot of people, gay, straight bi ect who don’t date trans people based solely on personal preference. This doesn’t make them any less a man or a women, some people just don’t find it attractive
Personally I would date a trans person, make, female, non-binary trans, anything as long as your not hurting anyone it’s fine by me and your mot less attractive for it.
But I can get why it’s added to the term under pansexuality as there are a lot of people who just don’t find that kind of thing attractive
I mean Im pan AND trans so to certain ppl do I just cancel myself out or what asdhdkfhdksh
I really appreciate this post. I loved how you explained the different terms of sexualities of how they are not the same and how they are different and should be treated equally.
It is nice that you got this out
I have a friend who is pan and someone was bullying them about this and it really got me angry. I support all of LGBTQ+ flags (not the homophobic ones ofc) It just really makes me angry that people get treated like this and it hurts just to see that.
