disclaimer: not directed to anyone, so don't go on your high horse okay so this is a rant i've been wanting to share for a while, i know people often have reasons to hold a grudge and that's fine, but the reasons are often dumb. now me being a grudge holder myself, i won't say much about the topic. i'm mainly talking about grudge holders like killakiks, whom if you don't already know, holds a grudge on me for a.. odd reason. people who hold grudges that aren't necessary are just hurting themselves, seeing how the grudge could've been avoided. like killakik's reason for holding a grudge on me, which was over a joke. now to be clear, i'm not saying you can't hold a grudge i'm just saying you should only hold a grudge for reasonable things, not over a joke that got taken too far or other shit like that. if you hold grudges, then you're also more prone to never being liked, unless the reason is understandable and reasonable. but for those who's opposite of that, there's a chance no one is going