If someone makes a post in which they talk about a personal issue, a good rule of thumb is: If you're under ten, don't know them, or don't have any advice, shut up."

If I made a post about... I dunno, my feelings of inadequacy, the last thing I want is some kid saying "yeah, I felt bad when my mommy told me other kids my age could wipes themselves" I'd want people to say "hey, we talk sometimes andi think you're cool, and I appreciate your art style. Try to think of all the things you're good at, and how the people around you chose to be there" or some shit

If you're under the age of ten, chances are you haven't experienced any real issues. There are exceptions, but few and far between. Hell, I faced shit before the age of ten that I didn't even know was bad. You need life experience to talk to someone about problems, and that experience tends to develop after you hit double digits, it's just a fact of life.

If you don't know the person, and I mean actually have at least one conversation, then everything you say is completely impersonal. It doesn't me anything for a stranger to compliment your personality. Fake compliments are worse than no compliments.

If you see someone you know going through some shit, do more than compliment them. Try to help. Tell them a potential course of action to consider, tell them what you do if you experience the same thing.