Either you're a close friend of BD or his therapist, please specify. It has been a while since the death of his daughter and husband, and ever since then he rightfully hasn't been doing so well. He's partially deaf and blind due to the 'accidents' happening in gang fights. Ever since he lost part of his hearing and sight, he decided to finally give up the gang, despite being a part of it for most of his life. One day you go to check up on BD, whether its at his house or in a therapy session, and he just looks like this. Most of the time he's willing to talk or at least gesture for a hug, but this time he just looked like he needed to cry, but was containing it. This is canon stuff, so he is in his 40s in this. Absolutely no minors are to be shipped with him in a rp. If you choose the friend route, you can have your oc down to at least in their 30s or 40s. If his therapist, choose whatever age and up starting from 25.