ok so my sister I'll call her L made cookies and dinner last night and did'nt clean up. At about four pm my mom called us on are Alexa and told L to do the dishes. L did'nt do the dishes. When my mom came home about 6:04 pm she was pissed at the fact the dishes where not done. Instead of just doing the dishes L stood in the kitchen with her arms crossed. So my mom got more mad as L just stood there. After about 3 mins (it dosent sound like a lot of time but when the tenchin was that bad ,my mom and L got into a screaming match. Long story short my sister called my stupid,flipped her off, and hit my mom in the head with my moms phone. Now my mom did hit L a good amount of times. L is out of choir and all futre plays and dances have been band. The worst part about this is L just went on a trip to Utah (we live in Oregon) and my mom paid for the whole thing L went with her dad on the trip. I just need some help and Epinions