You're valid.
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YesButLikeMaybeNo
01.02.2021 01:18
Linkhey man
ty for bringing light to this situation. ur cool
and everyone is valid. ty for this post as well.
just notice the name of this account lmao
anyways i hope you all have a great night :)
and start asking around, ive told my story and why i said what i said. now its up to you if you want to go looking for the answer
so um i like to fix things first of all so thats why im talking to you, ive already made up with at least 5 people who hated me only an hour ago,
anyways im just gunn quote what i said earlier, but seriously i dont have the energy to have another full on convo with someone
anyways heres what i said:
"im gunna say it here, because i believe you will listen to me more than most people on this site but-
I WAS NOT DIRECTING IT AT TRANS PEOPLE IN GENERAL, I have never even met a trans person, what would I know? My whole reason I said that is because I litterally was sent a video from my friend of a trans woman and flickin her dick all around.... VERY GROSS . there-- can you see my delema, I did not mean to make a very large group mad at me, I just wanted to answer someones question honestly
now if you actually did read that, pls help others see my mistake because i really didnt mean for it to offend this many people"
Oh so you just, very horribly miss worded yourself lol? If so try to pay more attention to what you say. you having a big audience and everyone watching you eye to eye is really pressuring.
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Anyways, I can say this is understandable, I too have been sent that kind of stuff at a young age, which kinda traumatized me of some sort, even if it was a cartoon. But yes the way you worded it was not okay, not in the slightest bit. Im just glad you didn't actually mean it, yknow?
My neighbor is trans, Knowing mu mom speaks to them In a rude manner to me hurts, they're valid, I've tried to convince her one toommany times that they're valid, she just doesn't understand.
anyways
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seeing this really hurt me, too. even if i, myself am still questioning my identity.
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I'll write more in a second im really tired sorry
I thinj you could be a chill person, but i haven't talked to you at all, this could be made up for all i know, but I'd like to give you a chance at least.
J kinda just canceled you before you gave out your story, Which is terrible, I've never gone through with these types of accounts because i always feel bad in the end lmao, Sorry about that :)
Just. seeing a popular user with a kids audience just directly saying trans r gross was odd to me??becuz ur audience are children so they can get influenced,, or whatever? and the fact no one had pointedf out your error. so i thought i should have done that.
I didn't expect my posgt to get popular, onvre again im sorry
Anyways that's all i can think of, im tired too, too tired for my brain to process.
But anyways;
Trans people = normal human beings, just like you. Just because you've never done the same does not mean its "weird" or "gross"
I hoep you are using trans peoples pronouns^
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Try putting that video in the past now, i guess, doing that thing is normal, just... Odd how your friend would send rl footage of it, and to that i understand.
We're all humans, er make mistakes.
And we also learn from them, i cannot say you've changed, ive never had a conversation with you. but I'd like to believe you have :30
Im open to chat if youd like to convince me you're chill or whatever lmao. But yea,,gn mn
Okay yeah I just read everything and you brought up some very valid points, I know I worded it COMPLETELY wrong to the point were i offended an entire group of people, and hopefully they will eventually fogive me, because I really really didnt mean to cause such an outrage,
Also I did want to mention, I was also answering a q&a with questions being asked every 20 seconds or so, so I really didnt spend much time thinking about my wording, I honestly was just trying to make a joke out of it, which I guess thinking back to it, only that friend who sent me the video wouldv'e understood, I was definatly in the wrong .
I feel really bad because I know that I most likely made a lot of people sad or start crying because I do have an influence on people and I've gotta respect peoples choises. For example i wouldnt be extra mean to someone just because theyre indian, I would trat them the same as everone else.
I really do feel bad, and hopefully I can be forgiven. And thanks for listening, it helps a lot :)
Understandable, you are someone with thousands of followers so it makes sense you would have answered everyone without thinking too much.
And I'd just like to say, Yes. Racism is so dumb no one chose their color aha
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I forgive you, you seem like a actual cool person if i'm gonna be honest, Maybe we could DM sometime? I have discord.
And you're welcome, it was nice hearing you're not actually a bad person, Everyone deserves to give out their side.
No one deserves to be sent those things without consent, especially as a minor. I hope you've stayed away from them.
And no i'm not, i'm someone completely different lol