what is it like to be in love?
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EeveeLove1236 
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01.07.2023
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EeveeLove1236[OP]
01.07.2023 16:31
Link...im sorry that im starting this crap up again.
i've never really been in a genuine relationship with someone who truly cares about me
Um, people have their own experiences, but I'm pretty sure when you think about them alot, you get butterflies when you see them, and you get nervous around them.
feeling acceptance and safeness with a person. also if youre especially close you may feel drowsy around them because the serotonin release can cause a sleepy response, basically you feel comfortable and safe enough with them to fall asleep. and safe enough to be dumber around them. make sure you never rush into things because its easy to fall for an abusers tricks when you think you NEED relationship or NEED more friends. be cautious with people but also be true to yourself, and if they dont like it, dont try to change for them, find people who accept you as you are instead
also never feel bad for communicating clearly. if soemthing makes you uncomfortable, say so. if soemthing hurts your feelings, say so. if they arent willing to not say or do those slcertain things around you, then its probably not meant to be. and keep in mind people dont need to change for you either. you just need to find people that work well with you and that you work well with, socializing is a tedious process but you need to make sure to think things over well and within reason if there are ever conflicts
if they consistently hurt you or make you uncomfortable but play it off as a joke as if that makes it okay, they are not a good person. it doesnt matter if its a joke, people are allowed to not like jokes. its the same as any behavior, if they want to create a space for you, then they wont hurt you or make you uncomfortable, if they dont want to, then thats that. find a different person