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postmortem[OP]
29.10.2022 15:55
Linkstop taking away the nonbinary umbrella we need that.
Anyways I hate some of y'alls takes and I have a huge rant (there will be a tldr section just for those who dont care enough to read 2 paragraphs)
postmortem[OP]
29.10.2022 15:55
Linkgender ≠ pronouns ≠ titles
gender and pronouns obviously aren't the same thing. someone can identify as a girl and use he/him pronouns (in fact, will wood's gf uses he/him pronouns)
if gender ≠ pronouns, then that means gender and pronouns dont insinuate what titles people use either.
think if as like... the whole thing is customizable, your identity (cuz it is)
someone can be genderfluid, use she/her pronouns and be mlm. cuz guess what! genderfluid is a nonbinary identity and mlm includes nonbinary people. a girl can use he/him pronouns, a nonbinary person can use she/her pronouns, etc.
none of it is restricted when you're under the nonbinary umbrella, im sure most of you know what nonbinary is but here's a refresher!
nonbinary catogorizes anything outside of the gender binary, examples include; genderfluid, genderqueer, agender, demigender, gender neutral, xenogenders, and more.
nonbinary is an umbrella, sexuality and orientations are fluid and meant to be played around with.
postmortem[OP]
29.10.2022 15:55
Linkif you're confused feel free to ask any questions im open to answer stuff anytime today
also the tldr
gender identity, expression, and attraction can present themselves in different ways and there is an inherent queerness to be nonbinary no matter what kind of nonbinary you are
(Don't mind this account it hasn't been used for "that" in months and won't be ever again)
The 'hot takes' I've seen surrounding the nonbinary umbrella are honestly?? So awful??? My 'favorite' one as of recent is 'demigirls that like men are just straight women', completely detransitioning any demigirl that likes men. :/
Like, no??? I'm enby. Sorry that I'm not 'trans enough' for you because I'm an afab demigirl. It's not just for 'brownie points', I'm judged far more than applauded and I struggle with gender dysphoria all the same.
I think the only part of the take that I've seen around abt the shitty 'hot take' is that demigirls and women can't use mlm, which is true, because they aren't men / can't be men at any point. They are androsexual/androromantic, however. Genderfluid can 100% use the mlm label though because they can feel/be masculine.
My frustration isn't really with you anyway, I couldn't care less about what opinions you keep to yourself. The problem is that you're influential, and it becomes my problem when people corroborate those harmful opinions. So by voicing my frustrations and elaborating on why it's shit to agree with those opinions, I hope to dissuade. Because I know you don't give a shit.
i was wondering if .. where the trans umbrella is in regards 2 this 😟 is the nonbinary umbrella underneath it or does it just depend onwhat u identify as ..