I was an aspiring femboy when we met. Since I was 15 I wanted to be more feminine— And our relationship somewhat fueled that, I’ll admit, but the main driving factor is my aversion to excessive masculinity. Did I ever tell you what I wanted to do for a living?

I want to be a surgeon. Specifically a gender-affirmation surgeon. Given, this doesn’t change much about me now, but I think it’s at least somewhat related to who I want to be. I actually don’t know where I was going with that conversation-

The point is, I already wanted to be more feminine, and your preference has given an additional incentive. I don’t know how this statement will come off to you, but I’m hoping it’s encouraging in your perspective.

It’s between me and her don’t worry about it