hey so uhhn
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mementomori 
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22.02.2021
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mementomori[OP]
22.02.2021 13:16
Linklemme type and no this isn't like a "hey stop being panphobic by existing" post, i know some people are going to just assume it is bc im pan and making this post but i am Not
mementomori[OP]
22.02.2021 13:19
Linkso im happy that at least some of you are becoming more accepting of pan people (at least from what i've seen) and it's nice that at least some of you are helping us not be labeled by your community as 'the lesser bi' and not just as another sexuality with similarities to bisexuality
but what about sexualities that are similar (but not) bisexuality or pansexuality. i can't think of any examples but i know they exist. can you guys stop claiming those are just lesser bisexualities just because you can't do the same to pansexuals
mementomori[OP]
22.02.2021 13:19
Linknot everyone of course, if i'm not talking to you then i'm not talking to you. but i know SOME of you on here definitely do this. because i've seen you do this. stop that
mementomori[OP]
22.02.2021 13:23
Linkit's not biphobic for a different but similar sexuality or label to exist. the difference matters to some people and sometimes you're just, more comfortable with one label instead of the other. and i feel like i shouldnt be saying this because this is the same argument i have to make to defend pansexuality against the people who claim it's biphobic, just with pansexuality switched out for something else.
bi isn't "superior" to any other sexuality. i understand it's older and it has a long history and biphobia is, truly, an actual problem. but you're not going to find it in a similar sexuality. at least, not in the sexuality itself, but some of the people in it. some people are biphobic and happen to use a certain label, but that doesn't make the entire sexuality biphobic. just like this doesn't make the entire bisexual community panphobic or somethingphobic or whatever.
mementomori[OP]
22.02.2021 13:26
Link"well then, theo, if this doesn't make the entire community whateverphobic, why are you addressing the entire community?"
i am not, i am addressing certain people but encouraging everyone to listen so people are more aware of it and can maybe help discourage it.
just wanted to clear that up just in case
not to be rude but I’ve never seen one bi person do that including myself
wdym you have? are you admitting to erasing other sexualities ?
so i just wanna comment that an example of a sexuality like bisexual and pansexual is polysexual (attracted to many but not all genders).
anothr example is omnisexual (attracted to all genders but being attracted to some more than others).
https://lgbta.wikia.org/wiki/Polysexual
https://lgbta.wikia.org/wiki/Omnisexual
thank you flipanim user yellowmocha, i couldn't remember what they were called and my dumbass mixed up polysexual and polyamorous in my head
not to be rude but omnisexual kinda just sounds like bisexual to me ? pls correct me if I’m wrong I don’t wanna be one of those people that OP is talking about
omnisexual is more like pan then bi (or as how i see it), so you could, for example, be attracted to all gendrs but like guys more then girls and enbies
bisexuality is two or more and can, of course, be attracted to all, and like some identities more than others, but not necessarily i don't think
there's an overlap but omnisexual is just more specific i think
how is it more similar to pan ? if I’m not mistaken, pan is no preference, and not taking into consideration ones gender. as a bisexual person, I am attracted to all people (two or more genders), but I prefer male/more masculine people. again, I don’t want to erase omnisexuality, I just wanna learn the difference and I’m kinda having trouble
i was gonna add that abt bisexuality but i felt like i shouldnt get into the debate of whether bisexuality is attracted 2 only 2 genders or 2 gendrs or more ^^
i mean pan is all (which is kind of what no preference means i guess) so,,
i mainly see it as closer to pan (bc idk i just do,,), but if you find it easier to imagine it as closr 2 bi then thatz cool!!
yeah
i think a lot of the labels are just more specific than bi which is why some people use them over bisexual even though they could use bisexual. i know that's part of why i identify as pan, and i'd imagine some people are the same way (but of course, not all)
