I know my dad will probably get notified that I am talking about my mom like this, but i really dont care because he knows that she acts like this and he knows that it makes me hate her. Yes, I love my mother, but seriously she needs to stop taking every ounce of anger out on us or I will probably grow up to hate her

It really doesnt help to have a mother who gets pissed at everything, then also have a dad who has terrible and untreated anxiety. When this type of stuff happens he will tell her to chill out, which i appreciate, then he will start being all submissive with her and he will tell us fo ignore her when she is making us not ignore her

She will just say something like "oh you are really going to call cps on me for trying to parent you? You are going to call them on me because i am trying to get you to do your work? Go ahead lets see who they believe"

She tells me she is, but like- if your oldest child is genuinely scared of you for the way you act sometimes, then there must be a problem