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mementomori[OP]
19.03.2021 13:01
Linkif anyone wants me to elaborate on any of these i will, but im probably going to on my own anyways
mementomori[OP]
19.03.2021 13:06
Link"your gender doesn't need to satisfy anyone but you"
-this one's pretty self explanatory. nobody needs to be happy with your gender or your pronouns or your preferred name except for you, and nobody gets to tell you how to identify except for you. there's really only one exception and this tends to apply to every way you identify anyways but as long as you're not hurting yourself or others. there's no reason to stop people from identifying in a way that makes them comfortable and happy
"there is no valid reason to misgender anyone"
-legit. it's right there. that's it that's the take
"nonbinary skepticism is still enbyphobic"
-nonbinary skepticism is essentially when people don't believe being nonbinary is possible which is literally. just enbyphobia. in most cases it's because something something brain structure but like ok explain why i feel comfortable using they/them over he him? explain why i don't like being called binary pronouns and why my friends referring to me as-
mementomori[OP]
19.03.2021 13:09
Link-they/them still makes me so happy sometimes that i start stimming or that it legit cheers me up? i'm waiting
mementomori[OP]
19.03.2021 13:14
Link"don't claim anyone can't identify in a certain way until you prove they can't"
-again, prove to me that i actually don't feel comfortable and happy identifying as nonbinary and catgender. prove to me that i would actually just be happy being male or female and nothing else. i'm still waiting. go ahead.
"if you think people transition for attention just because of the way they identify [you're wrong and stupid. shut up]"
-not even just because of the way they identify, if you do it at all you're? stupid? like ahah yes i am choosing to be bullied and misgendered and changing my entire identity and therefore leaving behind friends and followers who can't accept me for who i am just so i can. i guess feel bad about that and then get support for it? like you guys do realize coming out as trans can affect things like homeownership and getting jobs right. how desperate do you think people are to get attention if i'm gonna sabotage my entire life in becoming trans for it
mementomori[OP]
19.03.2021 13:22
Link"nonbinary people do not owe you androgyny"
-i was going to put like "no gender identity owes you a certain way of identifying" but that doesn't sound like. comprehensible at all to me. but yeah no gender needs to identify a certain way to be respected. since when has clothing and presentation equaled gender you caveman
"transphobia doesn't just come out as hating or discriminating against trans people"
-self explanitory
Mx.Theo I have a question can someone just be uneducated and if so can we teach them or with you be able to tell the difference between nonbinary skepticism and being uneducated about it?
*Looks at that one child that asked if they should be genderflud or trans that one time*
I have another question (im sorry I’m asking so many I just have a lot because I’ve always had some questions about the trans community as a whole) is it possible to be Genderfaunet and be transgender or is genderfaunet counts as transsexual?
Because like i have no idea because like for example I don’t know if I’m going to transition to like have the other surgery but I’m getting top surgery if that makes since because at the moment kinda like trying to learn so I eventually find out what identity I do under at this point idk what i am? But I’m not Genderfaunet I thought that was it a few days ago but it’s not ?
No it’s alright basically what I’m saying it. I’m having problems with my identity at the moment. I thought I was Genderfaunet I was not the transsexual thing came up because idk if I want to change my reproductive system and I know that I’m going to get top surgery. ( I need to actually get grammar and poncuastion I’m sorry)
im. still not sure what you're asking im sorry
i mean good luck with the gender thing, that shit takes time and you can't expect to be able to get it right the first time
also you don't. need to change anything about your body if you're being pressured to????? your body doesn't affect your gender unless you let it
im still honestly super confused by this comment im sorry
not to talk about smilingnyan but im gonna exactly do that right now lol anyways who remembers when she said "I even agree that there is such a thing as nonbinarism to some degree." (from the sz kids rant)????? IVE BEEN THINKING ABOUT IT ALL WEEK LIKE.......... LADY..... YOU ARE CIS...... NONBINARY PPL DONT NEED YOUR "APPROVAL" HELPPPP