Alright so 2 days ago I left my gf for more or less personal reasons and last night she was begging to get back with me she started blaming stuff on me and being mean to me this is the second time she has made me cry in the past 2 days not a lot of people can do that well I told her when I left I most likely will come back i need to handle *personal stuff* and find out some stuff and now I don’t even want to talk to her and I have gotten with someone new I haven’t told her bc I don’t want her to yell at me i am just trying to figure out my life rn I can’t take her am I the a hole?