Yay OwO another beautiful child, I'm agender :3

Hey, question because I'm (afab) feeling not... like a female but also not male? How do I know for sure? I get uncomfortable with she/her, but I don't really get dysphoric about my body. (except my legs my weirdly feminine legs can go die in a hole) I also want to present as more androgynous, but is that just the way I want to express myself? Sorry to dump all these heavy questions on you. (posting this on my throwaway cuz I'm not out to my brothers who have accounts on this site)