Don't mind this

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Pomegranate
05.11.2017 00:48
LinkHi
Pomegranate
05.11.2017 00:48
LinkOk i will not mind this.
My girlfriend has been ignoring me lately and when she is capable of talking to me she instead chooses to talk to my friend. Honestly it kinda hurts... And we haven't spoken in about 4-5 weeks. I'm not sure what to do and I told her that in order for us to talk she can contact me on Discord or Wattpad ( I know she has WP already and I gave her my Discord). Still, she doesn't talk to me. I can't reach her on Quotev except when I have a sleepover at my friend's house. She still doesn't reply when I message her on Q. I don't know what to do. And I don't know if she still harbors feelings for me anymore or not... She could be cheating on me and seeing some guy at her school for all I know. Or maybe she's dating my friend and he's cheating on HIS girlfriend..? I don't know.. It just bothers me and I needed to let it out. This was one of the things that has been on my chest for a while and it feels great to finally just spill out my thoughts onto something.
It could be she doesn't really want to talk to the same people too often and it depends on how much time you two spend together, maybe she just needs a break. I get that but 4-5 weeks is kinda long but it better to stay positive you could always ask her to tell the truth in person if you really feel that way
Well you could ask your friend, If it is that way getting upset wouldn't change anything and you should let them face the consequences, and yes i'd agree with "I thought if you love someone you'd wanna talk to them a lot or something" I would talk to someone I love a lot too but it seems a little complicated with your girlfriend