What's your friendship personality type? The Relater In a time of need, you’re a friend indeed. Whether it’s a shoulder to cry on or just a hug, you are most definitely on your friends’ A List. Loyalty could be your nickname! You want what’s best for you and your buds, and you work hard to help maintain harmony. You can be a bit soft-spoken because you hate to take sides. You refuse to rock the boat and tend to sway with the status quo. But, hey, change can be good.