just to clear the common misconception,, Crying is a great thing. You cry when you have chemical imbalances for your emotions in your brain. Causing them to overflow, and, in turn, making you RELEASE that offset of emotion in a physical way, tears. So by saying that cryig isn't allowed, you're telling her to physically keep her brain offset on purpose, which leads to even bigger problems. Not tryna start shit, just needed to clear this up deadass; I'm gonna copy and paste this wherever someone says stuff like that anyway.