but when the bvs' are being used up by fakers, it hurts the people who are actually abused, and can eventually lead to the person abused thinking their problems aren't important and live their life being abused by their parents. do you really want that? do you want to make innocent people feel like their actually serious, possibly life-threatening problems are nothing, just so you can get a couple of likes and people saying "aww feel better bb :(("? child abuse itself is probably one of the worse things; in any form. even in it's best (verbal abuse), it can cause the child to develop anxiety, depression, personality disorders, autism, the list goes on. hell, i have it good compared to some others, my parents are just verbal abusers with very light and very occasional physical abuse. and even then, i'm STILL severely depressed with chronic anxiety, and chances are i might even have some sort of personality disorder. and it's all because of my parents being verbally abusive. can you even IMAGINE what people

who are sexually and physically abused almost all the time? that completely ****ing ruins them! my depression's basically gone (or at least, weakened) as soon as i leave my parent's house, but people who have it worse than me? they have that shit for life. ptsd doesn't just go away when they move out. the fact that they can't trust people or develop connections anymore doesn't go flying out the window. stockholm syndrome doesn't go away, and hell, it makes everything WORSE because they want to stay. and you're denying them help and comfort because everyone's too busy dealing with your bullshit to help them. irish, you ****ing disgust me. nobody's forgiving you for anything after this. and don't you dare even try to pull the victim card, it was your choice to fake being abused. you brought all of this upon yourself.