my mum is very spiritual and shit believes in all that psychic nonsense and i don't. tried to tell her time and time again that its all bullshit but she still looks into it regularly and believes in it fully. she recently went to visit a psychic for a reading and kept acting all secretive about it, when my sister got told abt it she told me the reason my mum was hiding it was because the psychic said that she sees me baring children in the future and thats juuuust great because i've made it VERY clear that i DO NOT want children ever. at least not children that i birth myself. the problem isnt the fact i think this might come true its that now my mum knows i know now she's gonna keep pressuring me more than she already does to have children and i dont wanna listen to ts like is that all im good for

im 16 btw and she wants me having kids already

she does it to my 2 sisters too theyre both adults but like still its awful to pressure ur kids and make them feel like shitty people for not cranking out grandkids for you. one of them already has a daughter of her own that she birthed and she had a traumatic experience while in labour and doesn't wanna ever do it again yet my mum simply does not care she'd rather her go through it all again just so she can have more whiny little shitballs to look after JUST WORK AT A NURSERY

im so glad i was saved from mentally ill chronically online teenagerhood i dont know what did it but im so glad i can actually have a life now somewhat and not rot online all day in my echo chamber safe space making the 17th post in a week about neopronouns featuring my catsona with scene hair and zigzag top scars

aww thats sweet.. thats what people don't get you can still live a perfectly happy and fulfilling life without being so concerned with children and 'carrying on the family name' or whatever other excuses people will throw at u to have kids it should be a choice especially considering how burdening it is you have to be ready for that sort of thing