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Schnappie[OP]
14.05.2023 23:45
Linklooking more into bpd stuff and the. rhe HATE
Schnappie[OP]
14.05.2023 23:45
LinkWhat Are the Signs of Love Bombing?
It can be hard to spot love bombing, especially when you’re in the honeymoon stage of a romantic relationship. That’s why it’s so important to watch out for any of these red flags. Love bombing BPD signs may include:
Reassurance-seeking: Love bombers crave constant reassurance and validation. While they may give you lots of compliments, they may also expect you to affirm them continuously.
Intense interest: It’s normal to ask questions when getting to know someone, but a love bomber will push you to share as much as possible. Later on, they may use this information to manipulate you.
Clinginess: If you’re being love-bombed, you may feel smothered. Your partner may always demand your attention, even when you’re not together physically.
Schnappie[OP]
14.05.2023 23:46
LinkJealousy: When you spend time with friends and family or have other obligations, like work or school, a love bomber can get jealous.
Elaborate gifts: Presents can be great, but love bombers often send over-the-top gifts. They may give you expensive presents to make you feel indebted to them. Aside from gifts, they also resort to grand gestures to serve as proof of their affection.
Strong declarations: Love bombers often make extreme statements about the depth of their feelings, even if you have just met. They may tell you that the two of you are soulmates or that you were born for each other. This is another manipulative tactic to cover up their narcissistic traits.
Schnappie[OP]
14.05.2023 23:46
LinkSudden withdrawals: When you don’t do what a love bomber wants, they may shut down or withdraw their affection. They might act cold or distant until you change your behavior.
Schnappie[OP]
14.05.2023 23:47
Linkan article about bpd should be trying to EXPLAIN bpd behaviors. this is not explaining anything this is straight up villainization and telling non-bpd readers to basically “get up and go” while they can. are you serious 😂
Schnappie[OP]
14.05.2023 23:49
Linkwhats so frustarating is that anything i do could be interpreted as something manipulative when ..?? i just..? not doing that? “this is another manipulative tactic to cover up their narcissistic traits.”
Schnappie[OP]
14.05.2023 23:54
Linkeven insinuating the idea that those with bpd would use personal information to Blackmail loved ones..? Ugh UGHHH i cant do this anymore baii. /nsrs
people who Do manipulative acts with malicious intent ARE bad people butnot because they have bpd but rather because of like. other things. like not getting help or just generally not being taught rigbt from wrong.. LIKE
Schnappie[OP]
14.05.2023 23:54
LinkHOW DO I EXPLAIN THIS ?
Schnappie[OP]
14.05.2023 23:55
Linki am taking this personally because j have been lovebombed and now its like this is telling me thag I would do thattt ? LIKEIIIII
Schnappie[OP]
14.05.2023 23:58
Linkhands shaking and eye twitching as i hold back from asking for reassurance because physically and in every literal form i NEED to be reassured that everything is ok or i WILL freak out which (im working on) but apparently asking for reassurance as a bpd individual is considered manipulative BUT ON LITERALLY EVERY OTHER PLATFORM ASKING FOR REASSURANCE IS CONSIDERED A GOOD THING its like they tell you to communicate but then tells you that your communication is wrong LIKE