Some people have asked me, "why do you side with them??" As in "them" They're referring to the 'criminal' or the 'bad person' in the conflict. It depends to me, who I side with, even though thr majority thinks they are the bad person. My reasoning behind this is what I'm going to explain. Through experience, getting hurt wants you to hurt. Now, we've all heard about the bullies being "insecure" that I'd true in most cases. Other times, their heart is broken, or they just feel betrayed, or depressed. I've always sided with them to let them know that THEY AREN'T THE ONLY ONE FELLING THAT WAY. I want them to feel dependant on me, to trust me, for then to KNOW that I can help. I don't want them to feel even MORE hurt in another way.