yikes- idrk how to help with that i mean for drawing motivation yea but the other stuff idrk..

its ok what i did was look or try different styles ig..

anyways bye mia ily

make sure to sleep soon

Well I’m my situation I don’t get my 20 dollars for the week, Dishes pile up and then someone else will have to go out of there way to do them and the trash will pile up too And if I don’t take the trash on Friday then our trash cans will be full for the next week My mom will be unhappy with me, and because my sister never did her chores I said I will do them so not fulfilling that is like I made a empty promise I do the chores to make my moms and grandmas life easier so not doing that can make me feel guilty and without a valid reason like I was gone or sick it’s not a nice thing to do Of course my mom does realize I have major depression issues so sometimes I might not be able to do the task but for me cleaning is actually something I’m very regular about and it makes me fulfilled when something is clean

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Sometimes doing chores is easier when your talking to someone else, so calling your friends or asking your sibling to talk to you may help I don’t usually have to a option to talk to my friends or sister since they are at school but that just means I can keep to myself and do my job at my own pace and not have to juggle talking and working

Not having motivation can be confusing, my sister is on the side of depression where she doesn’t clean her room and it gets dirty fast- for a lot of people it’s easy to look and say that makes someone lazy- and her not doing the chores makes her unreliable But you have to understand from both viewpoints and how different people function Sometimes saying I’m gonna go do something isn’t enough and people need incentive like someone else telling them to do something for it to be effective and sometimes people can’t be pushed at all There’s actually a place somewhere in Asia where a person will push you to do your work and won’t let you leave until it’s done ( with signed consent )

It can sometimes cause people to feel like they are less capable and important, which is not true everyone has there weaknesses and strengths My sister may not be able to keep her room clean or keep up with chores but she always gets her school work done and participates in many clubs

Sometimes you won’t have motivation to do things, however work still needs to be finished and so you have to find ways to do the work without motivation Setting a alarm is one way I do it

Depression isn’t something you should be ashamed of it’s really common- regardless of what other people read it as it’s something you can’t control and causes certain feelings and reactions from you Your mom can hate you having emotions all she wants but those emotions will always be there because your human

Depression if serious enough should be something you can look into treating but you are only a sufferer of it- depression doesn’t necessarily define you and there are many ways to treat it Even without medication