Just a little thing.
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pablofawkes 
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26.04.2018
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irishoatmeal
26.04.2018 23:49
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pablofawkes[OP]
26.04.2018 23:50
LinkIs your name madsmarie?
I saw that you had an argument with someone.
I don't know what it's about, I was too lazy to read the conversation you guys had, and as such I'm not giving my opinion or taking sides.
My personal opinion is that you probably shouldn't get other people involved in your personal stuff.
Mostly because it will kind of make the other person feel like your badmouthing people, but also because people whondo get involved are usually the people who care too much about drama, so they'll stay involved at keep going at it even if it's resolved.
Just some unwarranted advice you don't have to listen to.
I understand cwhy you'd get people involved, but more people just means more overlapping voices. It isn't really productive.
yeah thats why i didnt want to get involved ech... usually in serious drama things people regret their actions and it's hard to not pass judgements at the time on people that'll probably end up regretting it
getting into fights with good friends is one of those things you always want to undo, and having other people in the argument egging it on and making it harder to undo those actions and be friends again
Yeah, and the others usually get that "good guy bad guy" mentality that they tend not to drop even after shit gets resolved.
yeah, humans make ingroups surprisingly quickly and with little provocation. Especially with this kind of drama, which is the kind of thing thats like "either youre with me or against me"
I've shh'd.
Kind of glad she chose you to talk to, that I saw, because you can be trusted to stay honest.
That’s why I asked her. She’s like, one of the only people I can trust to give me an honest fricking opinion. Her and nyan. Also, thanks for telling me, I actually sent a message that I didn’t want people to get involved, I guess I was just looking for someone older than me to reassure me I wasn’t useless.