like.. Ok Let me explain

So I was on the bus yesterday,, right? Well, a boy on my bus was doing something REALLY gay (He touched another boy's "AREA".) So me and my friend were calling him gay (she's straight,, I'm pan ya know) And the boy who got touched "there" said to ME And I quote "You can't call someone gay if you are gay! You can't do that!" Was he true?

Like Im being serious here