Hanz, I know you feel sick not being able to help your friends but it is not your entire responsibility to look after them and make sure they’re ok. Your mental health matters. I know you like helping them, I know when you make people feel better it feels good. But you do not deserve that pressure being put on you Rango. You don’t. You’re allowed to step out of the situation. You do not have to put yourself aside for people. Friendship is a two way street. If you’re always there for them and soaking up their tears and they don’t bother when you’re sad or care how they’re effecting you- I just Mmmh. Yes, people can vent and it’s healthy too, hell I encourage it. But you cannot fix everyone’s problems, and your friends should not expect you to be able to magically make it better. You’re not their therapist my love, you aren’t a professional, you’re their friend.