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Losing My Mind
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//Mountain Lion//
Don't worry i'm not going to.
by:
CarrieDaWolfe 
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27.07.2018
47 comments
CarrieDaWolfe[OP]
27.07.2018 23:21
LinkI won't.
My girlfriend keeps getting upset because I keep pointing out that she keeps using my ideas. And I reassure her that it's fine but then she deleted the posts and then feels upset because she's 'stealing' but it's not her fault. She just liked the ideas. And I respect that. She didn't do anything wrong.
Oh, well did you try to sit down with her and tell her how you feel and you respect that she liked the ideas.?
I went to her house literally not even 30 minutes ago and spent time with her. And every time she gets upset I have a full on conversation with her. And I feel bad because I'm making her feel like she did something wrong. But the bad thing is in different situations she explains to me that her art is 'bad' and that she doesn't like it because "everyone's better than her" But they aren't! And I hate seeing her like that, and we end up arguing over the topic because she won't listen to me when I try to calm her down and make her feel better about it.
And after I just got back I see a post she made that was using an idea. So I pointed it out but reassured her that it was fine because she probably forgot or something. And I said it was fine. And then she starts to get upset. and I try explaining everythings' fine.
And the thing is I CAN'T make her feel better EVERY SINGLE TIME! And I feel really bad about it!
oh, well this might not help and it might help but tell her this. " Her art is Beautiful and perfect the way it is!, every person starts somewhere and her art is perfect. Plus try showing some embarassing art and try to make her laugh i mean it help alot when im argueing with my sister.
I can try, but even when me or Axolotus, or some other people try and tell her it's really good and she should be proud she disagrees and it hurts me very badly.
Thats right not everyone can make every person happy at the specific time but you can try to cheer them up.
Well thats all i have to tell you really, but I hope things get better okay, I hope you and her feel better let me know how it goes if you'd like that is <3! okay know we all are here I will always support your choices.
she even says that my art is better than hers. And then I explain to her, no it's not. We both have different art styles and they are unique in their own ways. And that we are very good artist and neither one of us are better than the other. We just have different art styles. And then she says that my art style is better than hers. ANd I just can't anymore. because I feel like it's impossible to make her feel better. And I love her so much and it just freaking hurts
It always gets better. But i'll let you know if anything changes.
well thats all i can tell you, just make sure you keep calm and maybe have you tried giving her space or tried drawing in her style? or teach her some ways that you do your stuff then that might giver her the thought of "Hey thats not that bad" kind of thing. i really do hope this will get better just keep calm in this situation. Try.
It's not your fault. I just needed help because I can't deal with anything on my own. I'm a sensitive piece of crap. Don't you remember this? If I tried to do this by myself then I probably would've gotten depressed. The only thing that happened was an anxiety attack. Except I didn't tell anyone that on here. Until now. But once again it's not your fault. It never was.
I can't help you. I never can. I've told you before. I hesitate when I feel like I need to. And then I force myself. And I- should probably stop talking.
no but I just can't help you. Because i'll end up hurting myself. Mentally not physically
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it's funny how I want to help you but I can't because I don't want to hurt myself. And I can't because I don't have the words.
I need a break. And I feel like I just ****ing mess everything up. No this isn't your fault. Please don't feel bad. You didn't do ANYTHING wrong. I just need a break. Whether I like it or not.