genuine question here
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lxCottonxl[OP]
04.06.2024 12:30
Linkokay how the **** do i stop obsessing over my fp. they have me blocked on everything but i've literally been stalkign their social media non stop. i physically can't sleep if i don't and i can't properly function if i don't. i can't stop telling my friends about how they're doing despite me being blocked. my friends keep telling me i need to stop but i genuinely don't know how?? everything reminds me of them and i literally had a breakdown this morning and relapsed (i was 5 days clean) because i miss them so much i can't do this shit i genuinely need help im desperate
lxCottonxl[OP]
04.06.2024 12:38
Linkplease anyone. i'll draw you fully rendered fanart or smth if you help im ****ing desperate im literally gonna kms if ican't stop
get them off the ****ing pedestal
detach from them. accept the fact they’ve blocked u. its for a reason and just because you care doesnt mean this person will. they’ll give the same attention once given to u to someone else so easily and thats js disgsuting so be mad abt it dont be sad and dont dwell in the ‘what we coulve been’ bs because if it was meant to it would’ve happened but it didnt, right? accept it.
the best way to detach from someone is to think abt the favt that they blocked u like ew how petty can u get, right? create a situation that makes this person icky. if they come back to u must be icky ok dont take them back
if they wanted to stay around u they wouldve. you lingering around is js further mabarrasinf urself, flip it onto them. domt embarass urself know ur worth dont let a person **** u around
dont be desperate. this person doesnt want to hear from u like imagine if this person finds out and they go “oh my god its them they wont leave me tf alone” like dont be that person
therefore stop talking abt them. like ur going thru a withdrawal, someone who’s ur fav is obviously gonna source your happiness so when its suddenly gone u go thru withdrawals yeah? thats whats happening n u needa detach from it
have the once im gone im gone typa mindset dont dwell on shit that happened in the past because face reality you cant change it you can not change it no matter what you do, how much you cry, how much you talk abt them it’s not gonna change