Ok so this could go for anyone but in this particular thing im morr focussed on the transitioning peeps. If you are a specific gender or sexuality, you dont have to "look like one" if you know what i mean. Like i didnt cut my hair because i wanted to look nonbinary. A transwoman doesnt need to be the most girly person ever to be a transwoman. A lesbian doesnt need to be butch or ultra fem to be a lesbian. Get what im saying? You gotta look like you! I know it sounds real cheesy and clique but its true. You gotta express yourself the way you wnag to. Gender expression and gender identity are two different things. Take the webtoon "Acceptance" for example, the main character is a guy who has rainbow hair, wears makeup and does fashion. Everyone assumes hes gay or trans. For the most part he likes a girl and is cis as far as i know. Be you okay? And if anyone says "yOu DoNt lOoK *insert thing here*", punch them in the face. No jk dont do that but try not tk get offended. So ilyasm and yall valid as hecc <

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