how are U gonna be a he/him if ur lesbian

yeah pronouns and gender are two different things. Also sexuality is personal, you can be whatever you want.

idk i give up tryna understand it all i just call people whatever they wanna be called

yeah pronouns and gender are two different things. Also sexuality is personal, you can be whatever you want.

you're looking right at one

yup that makes a lot of sense

well pronouns dont equal gender so i guess in a way?? if you dont identify as a male.. i dunno correct me if im wrong

well, both gender and sexuality can be a lot more complex than we might assume at first glance. Lesbians often went by 'he/him' in the past, though for historical reasons. If a lesbian feels that he/him pronouns fit him better than she/her or they/them, then what authority does anyone else have to tell him he can't use those pronouns, or define his preferences in a specific way because of them? Thats my take on it at least. The queer community right now is just a bingo machine of the same discourses rehashed yearly, so at some point you just stop caring about how other people identify themselves.

butch lesbian that goes by solely he/him and masc nouns its just bc i like being referred masculinely but when ppl actually think im a man it feels really disgusting 😭 i just like being masculine, its really positively affirming for me, she/her or they/them have never fit, theres a lot of complexities but like, pronouns dont equal gender is a good way of summing it up, aint a tman, aint no man, just masculine, men cant b lesbians and im really firm on that, if i decided someday i was a tman i’d just call myself straight idgaf just a masc thing that only likes women, butches have historically gone by he/him as well so its not some new woke thing, but its def a confusing subject if you arent one yourself

no