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24.01.2021
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hamsterbois
24.01.2021 03:28
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Hello, I would like to tell you why I made this account but first let me tell you my life story im still young very young but i want to make people happy, relived or just have someone to talk too,So when i was 2-3 when my dad died and at 4 i was taken away from my mom and had to live with my grandmother whic is fine i am living a good life but i get in trouble a lot sometimes when it is not even my fault and it is very hard ever since the pandemic my life has flipped upside down i was crying and having a hard time because i was stuck in the house and i have a twin sister so it makes everything harder especially when she is always babied in the middle of the year i figured out my best friend has depression and tried to kill herself which hit me hard but im glad that she didn't then she told me some more things that she has not told anyone and im always in her corner it is hard for me to stay happy all the time and i dont know why i have always been a happy person even when i was sad i still smile -
i don't know why, i have not been thinking clearly and putting myself down a lot.I though if i talk to people and try to help them maybe it might help me, i like to help people.
My goals on this acc is to
1.help people with their problem
2.make you feel safe like this is where u can come to for if u have problems
3.to up lift you and make feel comfortable
4.i can try relate to u
5.makes some friends
6.if you want join the helping community and always try to help people
7.place where u can escape from drama(and pls dont bring drama)
8.put some quotes to inspire and to uplift u
9. a place to be yourelf and lift the weight of u
10.make people happy or feel better
im always yelled at by my gradmother and my sister and sometime my sister hits me and scratch me.Im not saying im an angel because im not this ac was for me to be a diffrent person and one that is nice,kinder,smarter,more focus on work, and ect well im signing off for the night bye
thank you and it is sad but all i can do is get stronger
aww i feel bad for you.. I have something to talk about to.. also how did u find my pfp..?
Lately, I have been fighting with my sister and all I want is to have a stronger bond with her and I have very bad anxiety and anger issues. I got most of my anxiety under control but anger issues are still there. eventually, I got really sad to see that I was hurting my sister and other people around me. and at some points, I yell or scream or even cry. my sister is very sad and I try to comfort her but it does not work because I am a dumbass.
Well it is normal for family to fight just try to take some time away for your sister or maybe try to find things that you both like to do together and about your anger when their is a problem just try to lisen and then speak when they are done and they should do the same or maybe you should come up with an idea like something to do before u settle an argument like u can have and item and whoever wants it first which should be solved by choosing names from a hat, wheel or ect then whoever gets it then they can speak until they are done then the other person can speak. Only the person that has the item can speak I hope this helps!!!!
:( I already talked to someone about- nvm I guess I is deppresed but I feel selfish and spoil cuase my life is pretty good etc so I is addicted to pain and it’s a mission I make my life as horrible as possible I cough like to bite my hands cuase pain is calming.
Not a big deal and I feel stupid cuase I live in a big nice house with a happy family BUT MY DAD CANT ACCEPT WHEN HE MAKES A MISTAKE HE SAYS STUFF LIKE OH YOUR BROTHER HE LEFT THAT CUP THERE LIKE FR U KNOCKED IT DOWN STFU but no I can’t fight back or say my mind in fact I never will EVERYTIME I show. Emotion. I get. In. Trouble. In some. Way. I hate crying whenever I cry I punish myself no matter what reason. Crying is dum very dum my dad literally shows sign of anger get this- when I get injured WTF i cant be in pain apparently cuase that’s emotion so I’ve made it my mission to harm myself cuase I hate my dad so much I will do the opposite of what he wants.
But yet again like I my life is much better I shouldn’t be getting help I don’t need it I’m a soiled bot I live in a nice house parents who don’t come home drunk and a good family but why am I so- unhappy please help as I wrote this I almost cried but thank god I didn’t cuase I would’ve hafta cut myself-
Just because you live "bigger" or more "richer" does not mean that you shouldn't have any pain. You're not being selfish it is that your dad is not treating you right but you have to keep your head upstand tall and it is ok to cry, crying shows that you're not afraid to face your fear, doubt, etc. Maybe your dad has an issue with doing things wrong. instead of harming yourself just let yourself cry, harming yourself shows that you are afraid to face though fear the pain this life brought you. Try to just accept your dad about what he says and say yes dad or whatever you call him and try to be in his shoes having a big house is not easy and sometimes it can swallow you whole about how much you have and or how much money you need to spend so try to put yourself in your parent's shoes and if you see something on the table or laying around just pick it up or maybe try to do nice or ask your dad and mom if they need help or even just making sure that your room is clean and get good grades would be good for them.
I hope this helps and tell me what happens after all that advice I gave you and you also come back anytime!!
im sorry, i couldn't really help you as much as i wanted too. I'm not saying u should praise him just if you see something on the floor or on the table just pick it up so you or your brother don't get in trouble
i just wanna say, what you're doing is actually awesome. you're offering help to those who need it, and putting their needs first to help them. that's really cool of you. thanks
what your doing is great and your helping a lot of people!
So I was doing online school until last week, I just started going to school and it´s been okay I guess but it´s really stressful and I have social anxiety but my parents dont believe me when I say that I have anxiety or I´m scared to talk in public and stuff. I also came out to my mom last month and she just says ¨You´re just confused, you dont even know what [my sexuality] is.¨ and ¨How would you know? You´ve never acted like this before.¨ and no one really understands. The only family member who knows I have anxiety and doesn´t force me to do something if im uncomfortable is my grandma but if I come out to her (ok shes super religous and against pride and LGBTQA+) I dont know how she´ll react and im scared. And i didnt really have the best childhood plus bullying didnt make things easier and one question; Is it normal to fear the presents of family? Like if your in a room and a family member walks, is it normal to be scared, anxious or nervous?
sometimes it is but in ur case it is not good, im sorry this happend to u and ur parents cant tell u what u are and what u are not and u should eplain that u do have axiety because it is a real struggle and it is not going to get better if u dont take care of it.I have an requst for u that i would like u to do, i wold like u to talk to someone that u have not talked to before or make a new friend after that u do that tell me how u felt and how bad or ok it was then i can help u further also try to get ur gradma to talk to ur parents too abt ur social axiety and both should find a time for u and ur grandma to talk abt ur sexuality and speak very calmy and ask for her support i hoped this help and i will be here if u need me
Tysm, and I did make a new friend and she kinda helped me get better at being social, I feel a little better i guess but thanks for replying
lately ive been feeling sad bc my dog is raally old hes 14 and i dont want to die and he has a tumor on his chest so thats concerning and i recently got in a friend break up
oh no i am sorry to hear abt both of ur problems.First lets talk about your dog if he is really old and have a tumor he must be in a lot of pain and u dont want ur dog to suffer anymoe and when he dies at least he will have some peace and wont be in pain but i want u to spend as much time with ur dog that u can spend with him.Now abt ur friend what happend i would like to know more so i can try to give u advice
well... ive known her for my entire life and we started a fight about how her dad abt is a bad person and shes becoming a jerk staying with him and shes beem lieing to me alot and she said that her mom was abusing her even tho her mom is so nice her dad is a bad guy
I am sorry that this happen to you sometimes friends do this.I have another question did u friend live with both parents all her life or just with one parent and sorry if im not giving u advice i just need to know these things because i think i know why ur friend acts like this.
well her parents she lived with her mom most of the time and in 2019 she really hated her dad and stuff like that but now she hates her mom and now her mom might be going to jail for nothing and this all started over her not wanting to get in the SHOWER
Ok I see why your friend acts like this it is because she probably missed her dad even though she did not like the actions she was kinda missing him. I know how her friend feels I'm kinda the same way but I'm not rude to my grandmother I just kinda miss my mom so when I see her it is always mommy this and mommy that and I'm always kinda clingy to her even tho I hate her actions and I say she should have not done that but I still miss her and love when she is over. Also, her dad is probably lying to her and telling your friend all this bad stuff abt her mom so that is also why she is acting like that. I think you should try to talk to your friend and ask her why she thinks her mom is so bad after that tell me what happens
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Just so you know this is great what youer doing. But I do whant to get youer apinon on this so my mom and sister and I moved in to a house but my mom makes us go otside when she gets home so my sister and I will go hang with her freinds but my sister dosint want me hanging with her and her freinds because she is 13 and I am 9 but I dont like kids my age cose all I toke aboute is anima and stuff coes mostley thats what I know so it is hard to ceep it pg around kids my age. Mostly I can hold off from toking about anima but it is mostly cosing I cos so much at my sister so woud you have recanmidashins
then try to find kids in ur class that has the same interest as u and become their friend that is all i can really recommend for right now but also ask ur sister why does she not like to hang out with u besides ur age diffrence i hoped this helped and if u need me im here
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hi so My sisters birthday is coming up relly soon but evry one their is 13 so my frikin mom called her work freind if her and her 4 year old doter so I woud have some one to play with.but I HATE this cause I will be discloudid out of the pardy but at first my mom said dont discloud pepole then she dos it without evin thinking that I won't be in a coud mood and the stuff we are yusing for the sleapover is friking mine so I can't sleep in my friking room
Hello
So this year has been very sad for me
First my best friend is angry at me for no reason
second my dog died yesterday and my favortie one ive been so tired lately i get late for online class because of it
do you have any advice?
About your friend being angry try to talk it out with them and if that does not work then leave them alone for a bit and see if they will come around.Im so sorry that your dog died and dont be to sad because im sure u gave the dog the best life.Last but not least abt u being so tired, u need to make a schedule example schedule:after school do all of ur homework(except if it is not do untill a diffrent date like say if u have work due friday dont wait till thursday to do it work on some of it everyday and try to submit it 2 days before the due date so if their are things u want to change abt the work then u can)after u do u homwork do any other peiece of extra homework or stuff like that after that try to clean ur room and after that u can just find little things to do before dinner after dinner u can study (if u have a quiz comming up or just to get high grades and be more confident in ur work)then take a shower after that so the rest of the night till bed u can relax.(you dont have to follow the schedule-
i just used it as an example and u can mix the schedule to your like or create ur own) I also recommend that before it is time for bed dont be on any devices u should do quiet things like read or draw because devices actually have a blue light in them so it makes it harder to sleep and u dont even have to have a schedule it is just recommended tho i hoped this helped and keep me updated abt u and ur friend.This year has been sad for me too but we need to push pass it and show corona that even though adjusting is hard we can learn how to do it.(tbh i should follow this schedule myself OWO)
So I don't really don't like talking about this, but since I have no clue in hell who you are, I thought you would be pretty cool about it, and not laugh and bluff it off in my face.
So recently, I have been noticing anti-social behavior in myself, my mind is starting to like the idea of violence, and that it is the only answer, and I have just been not able to sleep right for the past few weeks, maybe a whole month. I try to tell my friends about it, but they just laugh at it, and kind of ignore it. I need help in the head, I know I do. I just don't know how to talk to my parents about it. Especially since they are so strict and shelter me. They think that I am doing fine, but think that my friends are the problem in my grades and stuff. I even try techniques to help this stuff, but I still find it hard.
Try to take a break from your friends because if they laugh at you then they are not good friends, being anti-social is fine you don't have to be social and also try to make a new friend and talk to your new friend abt the problem bc your old friends don't care abt how u feel. Last but not least you not sleeping well, you should make a sleep schedule.
Ok, I'll give it a try. Thanks. Getting onto a sleep schedule is gonna be hard.
ya it is going to be hard but i belive you can do it!!!!!
Well, I kind of started to stop talking to those friends, and I have been doing alot of research on mental problems- I now know what I have, but I am not going to put that on the internet. My grades are going better, my sleep is still ****ed up, but its fine. I now have a few newer people I talk to almost everyday. Life is OK, I got a dog. All I can say is thanks. I would talk to my parents about this, but they would freak out so badly. I hope you have a good day, and God Bless You :)
Hi!
I really like this account! :>
I'm actually also on a alt I made right now to try and help people out