so, my mom (who is trans-phobic and homophobic) makes a statement of transgender people, which I am, very clearly to my dad on purpose, and I instantly start to listen. So she states that transgender people are trying to get transphobic people over how they are transgender and their rights matter too, but she also states that transgender people should get over how they were born the way they were. And i'm pretty sure I heard my dysphoria and frustration crack a bit more. but i forgot how she exactly worded it, but it was somewhere along those lines, and in a way (that I totally disagree with) she was right, and pissed/confused me even more of who I am supposed to be mentally,physically, and emotionally. a n y w a y s owo'' thanks for coming to my TED Talk