my sister keeps blaiming me for stuff that isnt my fault and i told my mom and she just keeps telling me my problems aren't important or she tells me im acting like my older sister (who is bad i guess she doesnt tell me) and the only time she acually cared about my feelings is when my grandma told her that i was acting weird after ike everyone important and that i cared about in my family died in a year including pets and they didnt even talk to me about it they just gave me a new dog (i do love my puppy a lot tho) but she just tells me to go sort my problems out with my sister and she wont even listen