Never even talk to them lmao and mom thinks I can just bond bc they are family, i don't work like that.

It really not

i have three, one with mom/dad/sister/brother then on the same day one with mom/dad/sister/brother/three uncles/ like ten cuz/two grandpas/and two grandmas. (lost one this year so its down to two)/four aunts and then tomorrow where all the people on my dad's side come together in a small ass building and expect me to get along with people i have never talked to nor have any interest in whatsoever.

this^

do it.