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#stopbeingbullied
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pablofawkes 
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10.04.2018
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10.04.2018 23:04
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People say there's two types of bullying, emotional and physical.
But those people are wrong, there are three.
The first is intentional emotional bullying. That's where people are mean to youy, using their words to make you feel sad. The way to stop this is to reaslise that their words are ultimately meaningless and they are only saying the stuff they are saying to be mean, so theyre is no reason to take any of it to heart. Once you realise that, then you can stop reacting to it, and they'll stop. Even if you do get upset by theirt words, still don't react. even to say that funny line you thought up. any reaction is a reaction. the moment they get that, they won,. and you lost.
Then there's intentional physical bullying. That's when they take your lunch money or push you around.
Stopping this is more nuanced. Sometimes they're doing it to prove they're stronger and more powerful, so leaening to box and giving them a good punch in the jaw will stop it.
But sometimes they're doing it so you fight back, for the reaction, so you should not fight back, because they'll keep going.
But the last kind, in my opinion the most common kind, is the unintentional kind.
When someone jokes around with someone, but the other guy doen;t get it.
When the victim has made themselves the victim by letting the other guy carry one without telling them thet this isn't cool with them.
I've been on both sides of this. It ain't nice on either side, et me tell you.
No anti-bullying initiative that I've heard of ever tells people how to not be the victim. Despite the fact that it's pretty easy for the most part.
Don't listen to stupid shit, and don't reply to mean shit, and take a joke.
you are indeed right that some people may overreact to a joke.. but some people cant choose whether they are bullied or not. i understand what you are getting at though. bullies are also bullied by other kids for bullying though... its basically an endless cycle that probably won't ever stop.... but its still good to try not to be a bully, and to not misunderstand peoples words and actions! #STOPBULLYING #STOPBEINGBULLIED
I agree we should try not to bully people, but most bullies don't see themselves as bullies, so telling them not to bully won't do anything.
I disagree.
Bullying needs intent to cause a negative reaction. If you don't have the intent, you aren't a bully.
agree to disagree. like ive said before. everyone has their own opinions.
I wil not agree to disagree.
To be a bully would mean you intentionally bully people; it would mean you intentionally try and make people sad. if you do not havethat intent, you are not a bully
Like, if I say "I don't like 2ft tall blue people" as a joke, not thinking anyone would care, but a smurf saw it and got sad, I did not do it on purpose, so I'm not a bully.
some people accidently bully people. they might not understand the victims situation or what is going on in their life. unintentional bullying is a real thing, everyone (almost everyone) has done it. i have, you have, almost everyone on Flipanim has. everyone has their own opinion though. what i say wont change it and what you say wont change mine. as said before agree to disagree. :)
and saying "i dont like 2ft tall blue people" isnt bullying. i mean other instances
If you have unintentionally bullied someone, then you did not mean to, so you are not a bully.
for example. when i was younger, i had this friend with buck teeth. i wanted to be nice and pick an animal for each friend... i chose a horse with its mouth open. i didnt realize that it had buck teeth and that he would get upset at that. that is bullying. i didnt have intent on any negative response.
i may have missworded that.. what i meant is everyone has bullied... sorry for typing incorrectly.