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Alterous attraction
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MaxiTheNerd 
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26.11.2025
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MaxiTheNerd[OP]
26.11.2025 12:56
LinkI hate being nebularomantic
MaxiTheNerd[OP]
26.11.2025 13:00
LinkEvery person ive been really close with i couldnt tell if i wanted to show them platonic affection or romantic affection . I dont understand romance at all. I like being close with someone but i dont think i am very desirable since i dont like things like sex at all. So i dont know. I can never tell when someone is friend or if i have a crush on them x_x i dont know. I think im aroace maybe but i also enjoy being in a relationship i think..? Uuuuegghhh whyyy
MaxiTheNerd[OP]
26.11.2025 13:06
LinkI would want to hold someone or whatever, i guess kissing is fine, i just dont understand it at all. I don't know. I've felt this way for so long and i thought maybe itd go away once i mature but it hasnt. It sort of makes me feel like im not as serious about relationships as the other person... i dont want them to feel like i dont like them or anything. I just dont want them to be let down that i don't have strong feelings like they might for more intimate things like sex or kissing or whatever. I'd rather just do whay i do with friends with them, but maybe more personal things like holding eachother and such that separates it from just friendship. But still. I feel like i will let people down when they realize i dont feel as strong of romantic emotions as they do.
MaxiTheNerd[OP]
26.11.2025 13:08
LinkIt makes me worried that I'm not a good partner for someone. I worry that I wouldn't be enough for someone and that I wouldn't fulfill their desires and happiness.
MaxiTheNerd[OP]
26.11.2025 13:09
LinkI don't really know anyone who feels this way either so I'm feeling a bit alone on this and it makes me feel like I'm different in a bad way. Like I cannot have a normal life if i dont feel the same way that others do. I don't know. I just don't want them to think i dont love them or anything like that.
MaxiTheNerd[OP]
26.11.2025 13:13
LinkGOSH DANG IT i remember when i was so confident i didn't have any worries about my sexuality being just pan/panromantic and asexual/orchidsexual but now im genuinelu questioning if im aroace... endbdhdjsjskkworiifbdbdbbd WHYYYY!!!! MY GENDER IS ALREADY CONFUSING AS IS!!!!
I relate to this a lot omg. I’m pretty sure that I’m aroace at this point but I don’t know where I fall on the aromantic spectrum. I want a relationship I think? But I also don’t because I get too stressed out about it and I think my romantic feelings fluctuate if there are any present(what even is romance help). I really really want someone I can be close with above a platonic relationship but I’m so specific about it and I feel like it’s gonna be hard to find someone that would work with my boundaries/general feelings. Have you heard of queer platonic relationships(QPRs)? I think that could help your questioning maybe. Also if you ever find a partner, I think you should try to somehow communicate your boundaries(not wanting to do sexual stuff etc) I’m horrible at communicating boundaries to others so I can’t speak for myself but I’m trying to give help 😭
i think you can be both pan and aroace since aroace people can still feel attraction and have relationships etc, just struggle to understand romance or don't experience it as much. there's someone out there for everyone - and if you do find someone you want to try and start something with try to establish your boundaries, if they're right for you then they'll understand and still be happy with you