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Thatstophbuddy 
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183
08.01.2023
30 comments
Thatstophbuddy[OP]
08.01.2023 04:22
LinkLmt
Thatstophbuddy[OP]
08.01.2023 04:24
LinkFirst off get it in your head that apologizing isn’t some cheap trick you can pull to manipulate people apology’s are genuine and personal this post is showing you how to get the words you really mean out instead of continuing to hurt others
Thatstophbuddy[OP]
08.01.2023 04:27
LinkOk the first step is understanding that you are in the wrong and that you ****ed up,you’re in this situation for a reason and blaming others isn’t going to solve anything,if you can’t call yourself out on your own bullshit you arnt worthy of calling anyone one else out
Thatstophbuddy[OP]
08.01.2023 04:29
LinkNexts understand how the other person feels ,empathy is a must if you don’t have that your apologies are basically pointless, I understand people see apologizing as a learning moment and that you’ll get it next time but what if there isn’t a next time you hurt this person they probably feel terrible,feeling terrible is shitty people don’t wanna feel that way.
Thatstophbuddy[OP]
08.01.2023 04:32
LinkNext is you have to think before you ****ing speak you can’t just say sappy shit and think they’re going to take to that ,I mean it when I say choose your words carefully
Thatstophbuddy[OP]
08.01.2023 04:34
LinkExcuses have no place in an apology, I came here to see you apologize not to see you whine and cry about how it wasn’t your fault,
Thatstophbuddy[OP]
08.01.2023 04:37
LinkAnd lastly and most importantly
Take👏Responsibility 👏for👏Yur👏Actions👏
It’s not ****ing hard to abmit to what you did , if you can do it that easily you can abmit to it that easily.
Some things can’t be forgiven but apologizing isn’t about being forgiven it’s about responsibility and being mature enough to take action for the shit you did
Thatstophbuddy[OP]
08.01.2023 04:38
LinkThat’s it 😋
Bro those people that say "Im sorry *if* you thought..." Those apologies make my blood boil
I’ve seen so many apologies on here like that, I remember seeing someone have to apologize for how bad their apology was
W
i've seen so many ppl say stuff like srry then come up for an excuse why they should take 0 responsibility and try to get like pity points or some shit wtf
As someone who has actually had to apologize here for some shit I got caught up on, got manipulated but I still take responsibility for not reading into the other side better. Things were resolved with them because I actually fűcking made sure that all these boxes were checked. I think at the very least you can explain your actions, to give some reason why you fűcked up, as long as you still take responsibility for them and don't excuse yourself with them.