Ok, so, parents. Parents need to stop forcing their child to talk to them. If their child is not ready to talk about something yet, then the parent needs to wait. Forcing the child to talk to the parent may sound to the parent that it is going to help, but, it wont and will just make the child more insecure.For example, when my mom found out about something of me, she made me talk to her about it, even though I didnt want to and would be much more comfortable talking to a friend about it, she told me I would be grounded for like a month if I didnt tell her, and I told her, but I was highly uncomfortable and it makes me want to talk to her less. Parents need to let their child take their time instead of always having to be in every single part of their lives.