stop goig on ppls vents like "ahah.... i wish i could help but im just stupid and dumb guess ill kill myself..." SHT UP THIS ISNT ABOUT YOU NO ONE CARES ABOUT YOU. NO ONE CARES SHUT UP!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

if someone is SAD. dont ask them to COMFORT YOU pls

THEY ARE HAVING A MOMENT DNT PUT PRESSURE ON THEM TO HELP U OUT!!!!!!!!!!!! DONT MAKE IT ABOUT YOU

AND STOP SAYING 'oof" pls ps pls

saying "oof" or "ouch" or ":(" or "..." or a blank comment is literally just saying "i see your sad but honestly? i dont care enough to try to comfort you or even ask whats wrong. im looking riiiight at you and i dont care :)" even if u dont mean it like that thats what you are saying ok

thiss happens so much here i hate flipanim bc everyone here Sucks >:(

EXACTLY its soooooo much easier to say nothing than to make someone feel worse ppl r insane :sob: and ty :((( this is mostly abt others but ty still ^^^^^^^^^

whst part

if its the no one cares abt u part ITS TRUE the SECOND u disregard someone elses feelings and make everything abt u i immediately dont care what u r sad about you are just a bad person

also call me thupril here i have a DISGUISE to keep up >:^((((((((

u know what is fine? venting on ur own. i will care abt u if u are doing ur own thing but literally going our of ur way to harm someone who is already hurting is a bad person thing!!! make ur own post!!! vent on a post where people ask about it!!! as much as it sucks a person who is sad should still be aware of themself and have some decency!!! not everyone is available as a shoulder to cry on 24/7 and if youre so desperate to talk to them that you have to vent while theyre upset at LEAST say something like "i am so sorry ur in pain rn but can i please talk to u, i can listen to you too <:)"