Telling someone who is constantly stressed and has various mental issues to "Calm down" or saying "it's going to be fine" DOSENT HELP SHIT. IT MAKES THEM FEEL LIKE IT'S AN ORDER, OR IT MAKES THEM FEEL CAST OUT FROM THE REST OF YOU "normal" PEOPLE. And while I'm here, when someone gets mad at YOU, saying "did I say something wrong?" Or " did I do something? " makes them and at THEMSELVES wich does NOT help in the long run