First off, don't harass anyone mentioned in this including Cody Second off, i've talked to her multiple times about these things beforehand and im not immediately jumping to make this public. This is more of a beware post if anything We're posting this because she stated in a (now deleted post) that she wasn't going to try to change and then refused to respond to our confrontation so people should know about this if she doesn't want to change. THIRD off a lot of this is just me (emmet) talking about my own experiences . its not my right to talk about other peoples experiences with her without permission so im using myself or people who have given me permission to add their experience in this. Also, anything that doesn't have screenshots (some things were said in vc or we just forgot to screenshot) you don't have to take our word, however a lot of the major stuff does have screenshots.

The first thing is, she likes to trauma dump. a lot. At any chance she can get. And it gets to the point where shes pushing peoples boundaries just to do it. Ive had several instances where i've had to remind her not to talk about her experiences with another person around me because im also a victim of them (however i don't have screenshots for this one because most instances were in voice call). She also uses her experiences to one up people, for example stating she was "more disabled than me"? (also, theres her acknowledging im disabled take note) https://paste.pics/SR4AG

Next off, slur usage. I found out Cody had one of my designs gifted to her and I was not comfortable with her having it because 1 she has not been nice to me in the past and 2 literally like a week prior she had an entire breakdown over her designs and saying how everyone elses were so good coincidentally after was talking about my ocs and I did not really feel comfortable with her owning my characters after that. i asked dev to ask her to return it because she was the one who gave cody the design(she was gifted it for free) (i know its a little petty) and she returned it and then proceeded to make a vague post directed at me saying to just say things to her face and then proceeded to say "everyone is so retarded" on a post directed towards me?? she called me a retard?? for asking for my OWN DESIGN she got for FREE back ?? KNOWING im disabled too? YES she can reclaim the slur but shes using it as a slur against another disabled person. She does not get a pass for also being disabled https://paste.pics/SQVGC

Lastly, shes part asian and said she looks white but said this https://paste.pics/SQVGF ? Seems iffy since she stated she looks white but we're unsure so take it as you will.

I've talked to her directly about her behavior before, a week ago i did and i sugarcoated it like hell because i was scared she'd harm herself and then the second time was yesterday where me and dev confronted her again because her behaviors hadn't changed and I sugarcoated it a lot. She did respond to that one and said she would change and decided to make a whole post (??? why) stating she would never be negative on here and she'd only discuss her problems with a therapist from then on PUT SS HERE(i didn't tell her she had to do that but it only lasted a week anyways) She did not respond to the second one directly and instead made a vent post https://paste.pics/SR4AT https://paste.pics/SR4AV very obviously directed at us saying she was going to respond to anyone and that she wasn't going to try changing. She never directly responded to us, and she silently left the groupchat we added her into. Then she deleted her vent post and made a post saying she was going to "get off all her socials" and-

"cut some people off" (cutting people off as in just me and dev and not anybody else)

heres screenshots all together (https://paste.pics/SR4AG) < her one upping me + she acknowledged im disabled (https://paste.pics/SQVGC) < slur ss (https://paste.pics/SQVGF) < questionable possibly racist stuff (https://paste.pics/SQVI8) < public response after my first confrontation (https://paste.pics/SR4AV) (https://paste.pics/SR4AT) <her admitting she wont change (https://paste.pics/SR4BH) < public (response?) after second confrontation

ok well im neurodivergent autsim adhd

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im not toxic

are u defendig cody

i havent done anything in a while so i can deny it

im tired of this bs.

Cody? CODY GET TF OFF ME-

OH UR TALKING ABT STUPID TDI HEJKSL

ITS OKAY we tried to not make this public because we thought cody would listen to us and actually try to be better but turns out she didnt wanna take responsibility

Mmm yess

Mama

GET THE S S.

OH OKI