So, if you go biological parents rather than other methods, you either spend nine months in pain or see the person you love spend nine months in pain, then you spend about a day, or see your soul mate spend a day, in complete agony. Then you spend about thirteen years teaching then not to be cunts, the first few of which you spend also bathing them and cleaning up their piss, shit, and vomit of a daily basis, then after those thirteen years they'll probably be insufferable edgelords for anout year or two. And what do you get out of it? Nothing I couldn't get from a life without kids Hell, the aren't even able to have any real fun while they're living with you, unless you can palm them off on some other poor sap. But you'll probably must want to relax.