Because of recent events, I will not be jumping in a relationship anytime soon. Do not try to flirt with me, or hint that you have feelings for me, I'm not emotionally and mentally ready to be in a relationship, if I started dating somebody now, things would most likely get messy and fall apart quickly, causing a ruined friendship, because I am not currently emotionally stable to start caring for somebody else, when I don't even have enough self care. Please do not ask me to be your s/o, like I stated, I'm not ready. I need to work on myself first, I know that its not likely for somebody to ask me to be their lover anyway, but please, if you do have feelings for me, I know this sounds horrible, but try to hide them until I'm ready, and trust me, you'll know when I'm ready, I don't really know what I'm saying, but I'd thought I'd get this out there just in case.