Sorry, im about to cry
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springle[OP]
06.04.2021 03:43
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springle[OP]
06.04.2021 03:47
LinkSo uh... my friend keeps getting back with her toxic boyfriend. They keep breaking up, but she still likes him. I tried telling her how toxic he was, but she never listens. She’s ignoring me and admitted to trying to ghost me. I dont like being a burden so im giving her space but... i dint like seeing her hurt. I explained we didnt have to talk tomorrow, but i dont know if i can sleep. Im starting to cry, haha. What do i do? I dint wanna upset her but i wanna be there for her.... i was all she had in elementary.. i dont wanna leave her but.. i dont think i’ll talk to her tomorrow to give her space but i feeling like sobbing.
Also, i dont get on a lot because i dont wanna be annoying to you guys. Im sorry.
springle[OP]
06.04.2021 03:47
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springle[OP]
06.04.2021 03:50
LinkIm always left out. Im always being pushed out no matter where i am. Even if im with one other person, im never in on what theyre doing. Theyre on their phone or with someone else or just plain ignoring me. Am i that unlikable? I hate this i hate this. Im always out with the younger kids, whic i hate. No the kids but im put with them because im “the youngest”, when my cousin is only 4 months older than me! What the hell. My life is so shit right now. Why cant i cry ****ing hell.
no you're fine, if anything it's her fault for (i am sorry) being stupid. if he's toxic she shouldn't be with him. and you're doing your best to try and help. so if anything she's toxic too for ignoring a good friend. i am sorry but i think that you should find a better friend, one that won't make you cry, and listen to you. however it's your choice i'm just giving an opinion, i may sound heartless but I've been in your situation before and it's just better to cut her off from your life. because that relationship will affect your mental health. i hope you feel better soon and we're all here for you if you want advice or just wanna talk ^^
Thank you, but i dont know if i can. What if she needs me again? What if she’s all alone and by herself, i need to be there to help. Im trying my best to be a good friend to everyone but im always used and put aside. I dont have any close friends that understand me anymore. Am i a shit person? Am all i good for is comfort?
no nO NO! don't do that. it's HER fault for ignoring you. i know it will hurt but it's good for you. so stop helping a FAKE friend that doesn't appreciate you. aren't you tired of being used? aren't you sick of being pushed aside? if you are then DO SOMETHING about it...what you're doing and thinking isn't healthy it's very bad for your health and others health. i've had many friends and familly like that, but i had to let them go...
i'll be your friend if you want, i'll listen when you need it...and i'll help if you're in trouble...so please don't harm your mental health by doing this to yourself..
But its so hard to leave a friend youve had for years. Hell, its been over a year since i broke up with my girlfriend and i still care about her deeply. Im so sick of being used but i dont know how to fix it.. i hate myself i hate myself i hate me so much ah ****. I hate helping me i want to help others i mean who give a **** about me am i right? **** i wish this was all over.
hey...i care about you. and i understand your situation a lot. i want you to feel better...but that will only happen when you love yourself and let go of bad things/people...i want to help but i can't all i can do is give advice and hope you follow it...it's your choice and i hope you won't regret your choice when you make one :<