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Kai-furry[OP]
07.11.2021 02:18
LinkThis is a public apology written by Kai-furry on Flipanim.com
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I know so many people, perhaps even hundreds are pissed at me. And they are right, the last few days I been ignorant and slightly abelist. I have been doing the research and I came to the conclusion that Xenogenders do not mean any harm to the LGBTQ+ Community.
Part 1)
Kai-furry[OP]
07.11.2021 02:21
LinkAnd honestly, I was being a real idiot. I pushed away all my closest friends who were just tryin to explain there gender identities. I do not plan on my old friend forgiving me. And maybe that's for the better in the long run, I just need time to think about all this.
I may not understand Xenogenders and Xenopronouns, but I need time to get my head through about them.
Part 2)
Kai-furry[OP]
07.11.2021 02:24
LinkAnd for the people I hurt, I really do wish you well. I may not understand your pronouns, but I still respect you as a person. I will try my best to give individual apoligies, but in all honesty the amount of people I hurt I did not expect.
I know I said these were my opinion, but that opinion carved into my brain is toxic. I will begin doing more research over time. I am gonna try to respond to anything regarding this.
I will be unblocking as much people I can.
Part 3)
Kai-furry[OP]
07.11.2021 02:27
Link@judoscottage
Look, I know in the past I called you a Wh/re.. I know you blocked me and I do not blame you.
In many respects, I am greatful you hold your grudges. It makes sense to me now. I just want to say it was a horrible action I did, it was really me projecting my insecurities. You don't deserve that, you are not that person I said you were. And I mean that.
Part 1 of individual apoligies
Kai-furry[OP]
07.11.2021 02:31
Link@postmortem
I genuinely appreicate what you did, you made multiple cllouts on my bullcrap. Even made images going on the front page. I have a new found respect from you. You made me realize how much people were hurt my my actions, I never would have guessed my irrational hate for Xenogenders would have such a impact on the community. So I want to apoligize for the crap I done to you, and so many other people. But on the other hand, I respect what you did, you may have been slightly immature yes. But your dedication to getting the word out surprised me. So, thank you.
Part 2 of individual apoligies
Kai-furry[OP]
07.11.2021 02:34
LinkI will be trying to find more people, but there is so many it is hard to keep up.
But to sum it up, for the people who use Xenopronouns and Xenogenders. You are valid, I have done the research you guys have been growing the community, not destroying it.
Kai-furry[OP]
07.11.2021 02:35
LinkI got a lot of detail about Xenogenders from https://ezgender.fandom.com/wiki/Xenogender
Kai-furry[OP]
07.11.2021 02:40
LinkI forgot the username, but there was someone I told because they were Catgender that they identify as a cat and eat catfood.
And, yeah that was a stupid message I said. If anything it was just plain insulting to my own damn community. I wish I remembered your username but I just cannot find the message. I just wish you well, perhaps if I do find your account. If possible do you have any good sources? Part of me wants to learn more about it, I am still filled with questions. Anyways, thank you.
Kai-furry[OP]
07.11.2021 02:42
LinkAnyway, I am gonna take a break for a few minutes. I have resources to read, and just time to think in general.
To whoever read till the end, thank you. Just know I care about yall and I hope to change my mind. /gen /srs
Kai-furry[OP]
07.11.2021 02:50
Link@Xaliiox
Before I forget Xaliiox, we were friends for over a year just about. But it was cut short when I realized you self-diagnosed yourself and using Xenogenders. Yes, I may not understand Self Diagnosis and not agreeing with it. But it was inappropriate of me to talk behind your back because of a simple pet peeve. And I understand that now, you are a talented person. We used to talk all the time on Amino, but I know you probably won't see this.
I know how much I hurt you, and it's painful for me to realize. If you do get diagnosed, I am happy for you. Even if you don't get diagnosed, I know you will still be the same great artist I knew.
I miss you, but I respect your boundaries. I'm sorry Milo.
Kai-furry[OP]
07.11.2021 02:51
LinkOk break time, this is a lot of texting.
P.S Thank you Postmartem for forgiving me and helping me with the resources I appreciate you.
I really appreciate you doing this, I cant speak for the others but I will say that I forgive you. It brings me a lot of joy seeing someone say that they're doing their research. So good on you chief, I actually do like your character a lot and enjoyed drawing them (even if it was in an immature and ill manner)/gen
Honestly, I didn't think you would forgive me. So that means alot.
I don't even care that it was immature, it was a pretty good thing on your part. It got the point across.
I been surfing wiki to wiki, and it's starting to make sense.
It's for neurodivergent (i suck at spelling) people who don't fit specifically in a gender identity.
Atleast, thats how I understand it. I will still be searching it up, I still am a bit new to the concept
AGHHG IM SO GLAD!!!! UR DOING YOUR RESEARCH !!!!! GUH!!! IM PROUD OF YOU POP OFF MONARCH/gen
https://neopronouns.carrd.co/
https://xenogenders.carrd.co/
Carrds are like,, my favorite sources most of them time so this iz gunna be a LOT of carrd links
https://xeno-gender.carrd.co/
https://neurogender.carrd.co/
https://catgender.uwu.ai/
https://docs.google.com/document/d/14M46_3Uv_-DmgWMq5iIUbBKTcnpR0wp7BoMaPxFBKOQ/edit
wanted 2 add this bcuz!!!! I feel like it might help a bit!!! idk,,
hey, its the catgender person you mentioned in your one comment, my main is @allium
since you dont remember it, im using an alt since ya prob havent unlocked me lol /nm
thank you for apologizing, i forgive you. i'm glad you've realized how your actions have affected people and i'm glad you're doing research! i really appreciate it. i also want to apologize as well for being rather aggressive & impulsive with my reactions, and i'm sorry if i've upset you with anything i've said or done. the way i rush into arguing is something i've been meaning to work on for a while, and it looks like i still need to.
also, i dont have any resources on hand but i trust the one's postmortem's given you to be pretty good! if you have any questions, whether its just on the topic or for me personally, i'm also willing to answer. :]
Thank you, I really do thank you.
I hope the things I said didn't mean much to you, but it's still no excuse. The more I read, Catgender actually sounds kinda like a superpower in some way. But I am trying.
And for your main account, I unblocked it. If not I can recheck after this message. I appreciate you working with me.
/srs /gen
No worries.. in many respects I am greatful that people are willing to give me info even after the crap I said.
It will take me a while to not worry about it, but I felt like making this post because I knew I couldn't keep quiet.
I have blocked so many people during this, I unblocked over 8 people already. I been trying to find post after post.
But I really am trying to fix my mistakes
i'm all for people changing and learning, and admitting you've made mistakes is the first part of that process. and honestly, yeah i'm sure there's still gonna be people mad at you, but that's just part of life, yk? not much you can do about it, but the more you change the more they may be willing to forgive you.
anyway, i'm prob gonna head off now. again, if you have any questions just about my experiences or about xenogenders/neopronouns in general, im always willing to answer. its a subject i like talking about so i'm pretty much always open for it lol
Thank you. I really appreciate you taking the time to both research Xenogenders and apologize to everyone you have hurt and offended.
Glad to see you've come around! I knew ya would!
We all make mistakes, best thing to do is to just learn from them and move on!
im glad youve finally decided to listen and? dude that means a lot. thank you so much kai
Your still my step son ahahah but like im glad you're making an effort to understand and shit/gen